First, let's see if we can find the mother. Blood relationship is always the best educational tool. Your mother will never be separated and will always be your child's safety barrier.

Second, you really can't satisfy the first rule. You have to work hard for yourself.

Suggestion: First, accompany. Try to get rid of some unnecessary entertainment, and accompany your children to exercise, chat, draw and eat every night. Don't say you don't have time, I can do it anyway!

Second, control your emotions. If a child lacks maternal love, you must play two roles. When a child does something wrong, be gentle and firm. Not anger, abuse or cold violence!

Third, EQ education. Most single-parent children lack EQ education. When they grow up, most of them have obvious personality defects. Therefore, as a father, what you have to do is to actively guide your children to have a healthy, optimistic and inclusive attitude and carefully instill dark and negative thoughts. It may take a month for a child to form a good habit, but it may only take a minute to form a bad habit!

Fourth, carefully choose the object of remarriage. Sensitive children and sensitive new families may cast a very heavy shadow on your father-son relationship and husband-wife relationship. Be careful!

I hope my answer can give you some help!