Second, you really can't satisfy the first rule. You have to work hard for yourself.
Suggestion: First, accompany. Try to get rid of some unnecessary entertainment, and accompany your children to exercise, chat, draw and eat every night. Don't say you don't have time, I can do it anyway!
Second, control your emotions. If a child lacks maternal love, you must play two roles. When a child does something wrong, be gentle and firm. Not anger, abuse or cold violence!
Third, EQ education. Most single-parent children lack EQ education. When they grow up, most of them have obvious personality defects. Therefore, as a father, what you have to do is to actively guide your children to have a healthy, optimistic and inclusive attitude and carefully instill dark and negative thoughts. It may take a month for a child to form a good habit, but it may only take a minute to form a bad habit!
Fourth, carefully choose the object of remarriage. Sensitive children and sensitive new families may cast a very heavy shadow on your father-son relationship and husband-wife relationship. Be careful!
I hope my answer can give you some help!