First, put down your airs and be a "strategist" for girls' growth.
Adolescent rebellious girls will inevitably have more resistance to their parents' authority. Therefore, when a girl is fighting for independence, her parents should not suppress her for various reasons, because it is easy to arouse her rebellious heart; On the contrary, take a step back, be a girl's "mentor" and help her make suggestions to realize her desire for independence. She will be grateful to you.
Second, look at the problem from the perspective of children. Appropriately meet the wishes of girls
Girls' desire for independence can be realized in a harmonious atmosphere with the help of their parents. Parents should not only see the immature side of a girl, but also see her independent growth. Properly satisfying girls' desire for independence will improve girls' autonomy and self-confidence and help them grow up quickly.
Third, listen more and talk less to help girls become independent as soon as possible.
Respect is very important for the communication between parents and children, and listening is a kind of respect for children. This way is more conducive to equal communication with children and better understanding of children's voices, while preaching is often superficial and difficult to penetrate girls' hearts.
The desire for independence represents the enhancement of girls' independent consciousness. Parents should learn more about girls' independent consciousness through effective listening, so as to give girls more effective guidance.
What should we pay attention to when educating adolescent rebellious girls?
1, don't always talk about academic performance when communicating with children, which will only make children feel psychological pressure to doubt your "sincerity"
2. Pay more attention to the children's situation at school, but don't let the children feel that "parents and teachers collude."
3. In the contact with children, discover the advantages of children as much as possible, encourage them more, and reduce their resistance to you.
4. Avoid "you should", "you must" and "what do you know".
5. Respect children's right to privacy. If the child really doesn't want to communicate with you, don't be too reluctant. Respect children and earn respect for yourself.
6. Never blame a child for his rebellion, because the more you talk about him, the more he resists.
7. After children enter the rebellious period of youth, parents should pay attention to delegating various rights to them to help them transition from ignorance to maturity.