It's definitely not good to spoil children too much, but you can't take "being good for children" as a simple and rude excuse. Corporal punishment can cause trauma to children and make them feel resentful and rebellious.

Parents should not be satisfied with their honor.

Children's living habits, ways of doing things, ways of thinking and values of the world will all bear the shadow of their parents. If parents want to educate their children well, they need to update their ideas first.

Don't quarrel and fight in front of children.

When parents quarrel in front of their children, they will feel that the family can't provide him with a sense of security. Children who have no sense of security will have to go outside to find a sense of security, and it is easy to have problems such as joining bad groups.

4. Don't treat children as waste.

Discover the advantages of children, and any child has his own bright spot. This bright spot may be the key to his future success. Otherwise, you may obliterate your child's potential and even become the chief culprit in ruining everything for your child.

5. Don't pamper and spoil children.

Don't think that I was kind to my child when he was a child, but he will be kind to me when he grows up. This is a great mistake. Your doting will make children feel that everything their parents do for me is taken for granted. When you grow up, once you can't meet his requirements, your pain will begin.

6. Don't blindly deny your child's ideas.

Be good at listening to children's opinions and opinions, respect their opinions, and don't blindly deny his ideas, so that children can bridge the gap with you and be willing to negotiate with you when they encounter difficulties, and the parent-child relationship will be harmonious.

7. Don't pass the pressure on to children.

Parents have their parents' history, and children have their children's future; Parents have parents' situation, and children have children's ideas. The best way is to give children macro guidance and let them make their own decisions on the basis of full communication with their children.

8. Don't always mention "other people's children"

I always like to compare other people's children with my own children. First of all, they will have a psychological gap, so they will be too strict with their children in education, or because they always say "What do you think of XX" to their children, they will always focus on other people's children, so they are easily influenced by the outside world and have no self-confidence and inferiority.