optimistic
In the play, when Xia Xue, the eldest daughter, was in a bad mood because of setbacks, Xia Donghai, her father, did not criticize Xia Xue for doing something wrong, but put his arm around her shoulder to enlighten and say:
"A Family with Children" Xia Donghai's four educational methods are worth learning.
People will encounter many setbacks in this life. First, we should be calm, second, we should be strong, third, we should be United, and most importantly, we should be optimistic. If something goes wrong, we must first adjust our emotions.
Yes, everyone's life can't always be smooth sailing, and the road of children's growth is no exception. When children encounter difficulties and setbacks, we should not blindly blame and abuse, but set a good example with a positive attitude, let children learn to look at problems optimistically, help children learn to adjust and manage their emotions, and make their lives smoother and smoother.
"A Family with Children" Xia Donghai's four educational methods are worth learning.
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Like a world-class athlete like Fu, we often fail to see the heaviness and pain presented by other athletes. She can feel other people's emotions and think of others. In the face of high-frequency training and pressure, she can become a recognized pistachio, which is inseparable from her childhood education and her father's company.
Just like after the explosion, when faced with a reporter's question, she said quietly:
"I don't pay attention to these. I am not a success. The education my parents have always given me is happiness first. "
"Because I have suffered a lot, I understand the pain of most people and the sadness of most people, so I have many ways to make everyone happy."
equality
On the road of children's growth, I believe that many parents, especially fathers, always want to use their father's authority to suppress and persecute their children. In fact, children are also an independent life. We should also get along with children as equal friends, and listen to their voices while building their awareness of rules.
Although Liu Xing is not Xia Donghai's own son, Xia Donghai, in order to close the distance and relationship with Liu Xing, said when boxing with him:
"A Family with Children" Xia Donghai's four educational methods are worth learning.
It's been a long time. It's all buddies. Say something well!
And Liu Xing also shouted happily: "Dude, dude, dude!"
Because of this, the relationship between father and son has been brought closer.
Parents are always the companions of children's growth, not the commanders. When they get along with their children in an equal manner, children will take the initiative to seek help from their parents when they encounter difficulties and setbacks, and promote a harmonious parent-child relationship.
As Yin Jianli, an education expert, said, parents must treat their children as "human beings" equally, instead of conquering them as "weak people".
respect
A family with children, three children are different. The eldest daughter Xiaoxue is a schoolmaster, the second son Liu Xing is a scum, and the youngest son Xiaoyu is very cute. However, Xia Donghai never compares the three children, but respects their differences and privacy and teaches students in accordance with their aptitude.
When Liu Xing's academic performance became one of the biggest problems for the whole family, Xia Donghai was good at discovering other valuable places of Liu Xing and always encouraged and praised him. He said:
"A Family with Children" Xia Donghai's four educational methods are worth learning.
I found that he did well in math and physics exams. This inch is good, but this ruler is short. Liu Xing has a particularly great advantage. Didn't you find that in the column of comments on Liu Xing's conduct, he got excellent grades?
For Xiaoxue, who is in adolescence, she often has her own ideas, and sometimes some abnormal behaviors such as staring blankly at the dinner table attract the attention of her family, so her mother Liu Mei dug out photos and greeting cards from Xiaoxue's drawer and mistakenly thought Xiaoxue was in puppy love.
Xia Donghai knew, so he stopped all this behavior:
"A Family with Children" Xia Donghai's four educational methods are worth learning.
Every child has his own little secret when he grows up. Sometimes, she doesn't want to be known. At best, respecting privacy is a sign of social civilization and progress. Worst of all, if a child is not respected, how can she learn to respect others?
Every child is eager to have his own private space and a small world of his own, but often many controlling parents will cross the boundaries of privacy to uncover all the secrets of their children.
Xia Donghai will encourage Xiaoyu, who is still young, to "dream".
In the play, Xiaoyu picked up a stone and thought it was amazing. Liu Xing used a stone to do magic, which made Xiaoyu firmly believe in her own ideas and never left the stone to eat and sleep.
"A Family with Children" Xia Donghai's four educational methods are worth learning.
Xiaoxue and Liu Xing began to laugh at Xiaoyu, but Xia Donghai always spoke for Xiaoyu, hoping to keep Xiaoyu's imagination, and specially bought a telescope to cultivate Xiaoyu's interest in astronomy.