As a father of two children, I share three suggestions:
1. Thinking habit
Cultivating children's thinking habits can start with asking questions. Whether it's problems in books or in life, ask children why, leave them more questions, let them think, use their brains and stimulate their thirst for knowledge. This process is the habit of children's passive thinking.
If this habit can persist for one year, congratulations, your child has acquired good independent thinking ability and habit, which will be transformed into internal learning motivation and will always encourage your child to actively study and think.
2. The habit of reading
After the age of 6, children learn pinyin and Chinese characters and can understand most pinyin books. At this time, it is necessary to cultivate children's reading habits. Keep reading for at least an hour every day, first extensive reading, then intensive reading. A book, the first time, does not require a good understanding, the second time, know the general idea, the third time, understand the general idea. This reading mode of extensive reading and intensive reading can cultivate children's reading ability and understanding ability, which will play a certain role in the accumulation of literary literacy.
3. The habit of writing
Primary school writing requires making sentences first, then reading pictures and writing words, and finally writing according to specified materials. To cultivate children's writing habits, we should also follow this law. In the process of reading, you can first extract good words and sentences and recite them by memory, so that you can write an article one day. Secondly, let children keep a diary every day, not a running account, as long as they carefully describe a detail, a moment and a small thing every day. This process is to train children's ability to observe the details of life and describe the events, which is the basic skill of writing.
Finally, let the children recite two beautiful essays every week to cultivate a sense of language. If you can stick to the third grade, parents will be very relaxed in the later learning stage, and they don't have to chase their children to supervise their homework every day. Parents have worked hard, persisted and worked hard for three years, and the children will repay you with more than ten years of relief and pleasure.