Five core concepts of parental education
1. Family education is far more important than school education.
In the growth of children, family education accounts for 80% and school education accounts for 20%. Family education is far more important than school education. As parents, we must avoid the mentality of entrustment. Teachers can never replace parents. If you don't choose a good school for your child, your child will only lag behind others by 20 points at most; And if you don't create a good family environment for your children, they will be 80 points worse than other children at the starting line.
2. Childhood education is far more important than adult education.
What happens when a child is young will affect him for a lifetime, and what happens when a child grows up will affect him for a period of time. The younger children are, the more important education is. I wonder if you have found that the older the children are, the less effective our parents are in disciplining them. On the contrary, the role of our education is more obvious when children are young. Therefore, it is necessary to discipline the children early.
China Education: Children are too young to understand.
When a child does something wrong, sometimes we think that the child is too young to be sensible and will not pay attention, resulting in many bad habits of the child not being corrected. This practice is particularly wrong and is not conducive to the growth of children. What should we do?
Children's childhood education: explain the cause and effect clearly and decide for yourself. Don't let the child feel that everything is at his fingertips, give the child what he really wants.
Parent-child relationship is far more important than parenting education.
If you don't get along well with your children, don't talk about education, otherwise it will be bring disgrace to oneself. The higher the education, the worse. The child is ours, but above all it is his own.
4.( 1) How a child views his relationship with his parents is more important than how parents view his relationship with their children.
Children's view > parents' view
(2) How children view the relationship between parents is more important than how children view the relationship between themselves and their parents.
Husband-wife relationship > parent-child relationship
(3) A mother's best love for her children is to worship her father desperately; A father's best love for his children is to care for his mother regardless.
Parents study hard and children make progress every day.
The realm and pattern of parents are very important. Parents are 10,000 meters high, and children flying casually are eagles.