By chance, I watched Professor Zhu Yongxin's lecture at the New Family Education and Culture Festival through mobile phone playback. Professor Zhu has participated in the cultural festival for the third time. As early as 20 16, he put forward the issue of attaching importance to family education, family education and family style, which has a keen sense of political direction and academic direction. Step by step in the process of family education, there are more peers, the voice of running away is louder, and more and more people pay attention to family and family education. Family education in China and China is more promising.
Professor Zhu said that since the new education was launched in 2000, it has always attached great importance to two issues. One is reading. Yes, a person's spiritual development is his reading history, and a nation's spiritual realm depends on its reading level. A school without reading can never have a real education. Reading is the most important foundation for a person's growth. An individual, a society, a nation and a country will have no spiritual strength without reading, and the height of reading determines the height of spirit.
Not only does it read well, but it also reads well. It used to be beneficial to open books, but now it is beneficial to choose books. Previous books were classics left by big waves, but now the publishing industry is so developed that there are hundreds of thousands of new books every year, which are mixed. As a parent, a teacher or a child, it is very important to choose a book that suits you. Therefore, the Institute of New Education has compiled a basic bibliography suitable for nine groups: children, primary school students, junior high school students, senior high school students, college students, parents, teachers, civil servants and entrepreneurs. Each group recommends 100 kinds of books, and establishes 900 kinds of basic numbers to help read books well. A country, a nation, a nation, its competitiveness depends on spiritual strength. Where does the spiritual power come from? Reading is the most direct, cheapest and effective way.
At present, Professor Zhu is making another bibliography-the national reading bibliography of primary and secondary schools. Every subject, such as chemistry, physics and Go, always has some basic knowledge structure and logical structure. If you want to enter the subject, you need to study professional subjects. It will be finished in two or three years. Next, Professor Zhu will make a research bibliography, and primary and secondary schools have now put forward research questions and done research study. For example, if you want to study astronomy, aerospace and agriculture, how to approach it and understand it, you need some research bibliography. Making a research bibliography is something that no one has ever done in the history of China, and it is also of great significance and value. Through these, we can solve the problem of "what to read".
About "how to read", the new education has done a lot of exploration. Just like we usually recite in the morning, read in the afternoon and save at night. "Chanting in the morning", a new way of life for children, starts a new day with a poem every morning, which is so beautiful. "Afternoon reading", reading classics together at noon every day, reading in class, reading by teachers and students. "Eye protection", reflect on the life of the day at night, and write a diary to record the life of the day. Such a beautiful way of education. There are also reading note cards, reading record cards, reading and writing charts, etc. , can help improve the accumulation and depth of reading. At the same time, each experimental class in our school also held a reading exchange meeting to share the reading feelings of teachers and students for the purpose of reading together, and teachers and students formed a common password. Students have the courage to show themselves and cultivate self-confidence; The teacher answers questions and answers questions, focusing on guidance. Teachers and students learn together and make progress together at the reading exchange meeting, which has achieved good results. Other courses deepen students' understanding and memory of the text, increase students' social experience and practical ability, as well as their own imagination and expression ability, and enrich extracurricular life and increase their interest in learning. The effect is also very good.
In addition to reading, the most important thing in the new education is home-school cooperation and family education. With the advancement of education, we will find that without the participation of families, education alone will get twice the result with half the effort; With the intervention of family and the attention of parents, our whole education will get twice the result with half the effort. Parents are children's first and longest teachers, and their parents affect their life development. French educator Froebel said: "The hand that shakes the cradle is the hand that pushes the earth." Parents are the real basic education and the key to the fate of children. Good parents should not regard educating their children as boring responsibilities and obligations, but as their own fun, enjoyment and abundance. Only those who can enjoy education can interpret the splendor of education. I thought of myself and made a video with my 4-year-old son yesterday. He is sitting at the table drawing. Before I could speak, he spoke first: What's the matter? Just video with uncle, now video with dad? ! I said, why are you so busy, busy man? The son said: Yes, I am very busy. Busy with school, busy with homework, busy with calligraphy, busy with painting. Hearing this, I feel very guilty about my son. He hasn't been home for nine days at school, and he won't come back if he misses nine days of growth. Fortunately, with his mother at home, there is no shortage of tutors. When you go home for vacation, you must spend more time with your children and family.
Childhood is the most critical stage of life. Tolstoy once said: During the period from birth to the age of five, a child gains many times as much wisdom, emotion, will and personality from the world around him as he does from the age of five to the end of his life. People's personality, thinking and language foundation are all formed in preschool and early school age. Therefore, I also attach great importance to the cultivation of children in this respect. However, as a teacher, I studied and trained in the university and finally passed the exam. Fathers don't have any training, and it's their own way to raise their children, which belongs to "driving without a license". They all look at what others do and combine their own ideas to do their best. So family education is the weakest link.
There is also a feeling that children who have never attended kindergarten are very different from those who have attended kindergarten and have made great progress. Before going to school, I played at home all day, trying to teach him something, but I don't know where to start and what is suitable for his present age. There is no learning atmosphere at home, and I have hardly learned anything. After school, I gradually made progress, learned to recite poems, learned to write, learned to communicate with other children, and learned to think. At home, I cooperated with the school, accompanied him to do homework at night, sent videos to the WeChat group to share, and watched videos sent by other children to motivate him, which made great progress. From this we can understand that home-school cooperation is the most effective education.
? The status of family education also has a process of evolution. At first, there was no school, and the responsibility of educating children was entirely in the family. Mothers, in particular, do not go out to work and shoulder the responsibility of educating their children. As a result, a special place to look after children appeared and gradually evolved into a private school and school. Gradually shift the responsibility of education from family to school, and shift the focus of education from family education to school education. Many families gradually think that education has nothing to do with me, and education is a school matter. This idea has existed for a long time. Since the 1950s, some people have found that there is something wrong with school education. School education is not as important as imagined, and the influence of family on children far exceeds that of school, so what kind of parents have what kind of children. I have seen some children go to school online and receive their parents' education before. Professor Zhu predicts that new forms of education may appear in the future. For example, some parents organize a school by themselves to educate their children. They agree with a good educational idea and then do it by themselves. Of course, it is more about home-school cooperation. Home-school cooperation is the future direction, because family, school and society have their own advantages and are irreplaceable. Only by mobilizing everyone's strength can we really produce the magnetic field of education.
Professor Zhu pointed out that the connotation of home-school cooperation and co-education includes family education guidance, school life participation, home-school interaction and exchange, and community integration and cooperation. The advantage of home-school cooperation is to strengthen the educational function of the family and promote the construction of new families, family education and family style. It is conducive to establishing a modern school system, expanding educational and teaching resources and improving the quality of education and teaching. It is conducive to social harmony and stability and a happy life. It is conducive to the common growth of teachers, students, parents and relevant participants. When parents grow up, children will grow up with them. Parents study hard and children make progress every day. This sentence has a deep connotation and deserves our deep thought.
The most important thing in life is happiness. Only when you are happy in childhood will you be happy in adulthood. Parents and teachers should accompany their children to be happy and grow up together. Some parents say that they are busy with work and have no time to accompany their children. These are all excuses. You have time to play mahjong and mobile phones, but you have no time to spend with your children. If you have something important, you have time to do it. At the same time, don't compare your child's shortcomings with the advantages of other children, and be a companion for other children. Properly and reasonably follow the child's nature and develop in his direction, you will also find that in fact, every child has his own success genes, and every child can become what he expects. Today, Su Zhuolong's parents in our class chatted with me. He said: "The children did very well in these exams. Thank you, teacher. The teacher worked hard. I used to be very strict with children and always criticized them. After your parent-teacher conference, you said that you would accept your children from the heart, whether they are excellent or not. Only then can I understand that my method is wrong. Praise can make children progress. Thank you. " Hearing his words was a great encouragement to me. The parent-teacher conference was very successful, which changed parents and improved students. Parents' thoughts have changed, family education has changed, and our common education has also improved.
Professor Zhu also mentioned the feelings of home and country in his speech. Home and country are connected and inseparable. When the family is stable, the society will be stable; If you are rich, you will be prosperous. On the contrary, only when the country is prosperous can families develop better. Children are not only the object of education, but also the subject of education. An excellent child, or a proactive child, will in turn affect and drive the whole family construction, parents and society. If a child in a family drives six parents, grandparents, grandparents. How much social impact will it bring if the children in each family drive six people? In fact, children are also parents' teachers.
The first of the top ten actions of new education-creating a scholarly campus, and the end of the top ten actions-home-school cooperation and co-education, corresponding from beginning to end. In terms of creating a scholarly campus, our school first creates a scholarly atmosphere and places books in the corner of each corridor. This semester, we purchased 20 bookshelves and equipped them in every class and campus, striving to achieve the goal that bookshelves can be seen everywhere and books can be read at will. In this academic atmosphere, students have changed. I used to play on campus after class, but now I go to the book corner after class; I used to chase and fight in the corridor after class, but now I go to the book corner to study after class; I used to walk around after class, but now I go to the book corner after class. You can see students studying at school anytime and anywhere. Especially in our class, the school "takes special care of", other classes are all one bookshelf, our class is three bookshelves, and there are about 800 books in the class. This greatly improved the students' interest and enthusiasm in reading. They felt proud and filled with happy smiles when reading. In terms of home-school cooperation and co-education, our school holds parent-teacher conferences every semester to communicate with parents. Each class uses WeChat group to let students send reading photos or videos to the group to share. Combined with the monthly activities of the new education, students send pictures of thanking their parents, being thrifty and planting trees and flowers to the group to share. Teachers communicate students' study, life and habits through home visits or individually inviting parents to school. Parents trust schools and teachers. Teachers communicate well with parents and cooperate tacitly in educating students.
Professor Zhu also shared the principles of home-school cooperation and co-education: first, the principle of consistent goals; Second, the principle of equal status; The third is the principle of respecting children; Fourth, the principle of institutional openness; Fifth, the principle of diversity of methods; Sixth, adhere to the principle for a long time; Seventh, the principle of multi-win situation; Eight is the principle of cross-border coordination. And the ways and means of home-school cooperation and co-education: first, system construction; The second is to actively build a platform; The third is to read, write and enjoy together; Fourth, the communication channels are smooth; The fifth is to share multi-party resources; The sixth is an example demonstration. I believe that by adhering to these principles and practicing these methods, our home-school cooperation and common education will come to by going up one flight of stairs.
According to the new education experiment, without the development of students' parents, there will be no growth of students. The healthy development of the future society depends on the mental outlook of the future generation. The formation of a good mental outlook comes from education, and the interior of education largely depends on the education of parents in the family. Family education plays a fundamental and lifelong role in people's growth. Improve parents' family education level, carry out colorful activities such as parent-child reading together, let parents participate more in school life, lead parents and children to grow together, make family education and school education complement each other and promote each other, and finally realize the coordinated development of school and family education. Open the school gate to do education, and we will work hard in this direction.