1. Create a good communication environment: ensure a relaxed and happy family atmosphere and make children feel comfortable and safe. Avoid communicating with children when they are nervous or angry.
2. Listening: Give children enough time and space to express their thoughts and feelings. Listen carefully to their views and don't interrupt them.
3. Be patient: Children may need time to organize their thoughts, or they may not understand your question immediately. Give them enough time to answer, don't worry.
4. Guide the dialogue with open-ended questions: What do you think? "Why do you think so?" Open questions to encourage children to express their thoughts and feelings.
5. Show understanding and support: Show understanding and support for children's thoughts and feelings, and let them know that you care about their feelings.
6. Set an example: show good communication skills through your own behavior and let children learn how to communicate effectively with others.
7. Encourage children to participate in family decision-making: Let children participate in the family decision-making process and let them feel that their views and needs are valued.
8. Hold regular family meetings: hold regular family meetings so that every family member has the opportunity to express his thoughts and feelings and solve problems together.
9. Moderate praise and affirmation: When children show good communication skills, give them moderate praise and affirmation to encourage them to continue their efforts.
10. Seek professional help: If you find that your child has difficulties in communication, you can seek the help of a professional psychological counselor to provide guidance and support.