Through the way of money reward, it can only work for children to get high marks in a short time. Once this reward is stopped, children will not get good grades in the exam. In my opinion, although money can motivate children to achieve excellent results to a certain extent, it is not suitable for rewarding children in the same way every time. Bian Xiao thinks that rewards should be given from time to time to make it difficult for children to master the rules of rewards, so as to keep high marks.
If children form the concept that they can get money as long as they get high marks, it is easy for them to misunderstand their parents' real intentions. Money is secondary, and getting high marks is the persistent behavior that parents want to see.
1, 100 yuan is very big in children's eyes and can buy a lot of things.
Every time this mother rewards her daughter 100 yuan, it is easy for her children to form incorrect consumption concepts and thus develop bad consumption habits. I don't agree with this kind of education. Try not to have anything to do with money in children's education. At the age of children, there is no clear concept of money, so parents should not artificially equate scores with money.
2. Children's ability to distinguish right from wrong is not strong.
If the mother continues to encourage the child in this way, the child will regard all achievements as measurable by money. In fact, some achievements cannot be evaluated by money, and parents' education must conform to the law of children's growth.
Mothers can educate their children in other ways to keep them in good habits.
The reinforcement method cannot be single. If a child gets a good grade just to get 100 yuan, I think it is not conducive to the child's growth. Change the usual reinforcement law, so that children can keep getting high scores for a long time. Only when she keeps getting high marks can her mother reward her. Children's understanding of money is only superficial and easily misled. Parents should pay special attention to money education.
How do you think children should be educated?