-US President Barack Obama talks about mom.
Recently, a friend asked me that she was getting a divorce and her 4-year-old son was with her. How should she teach her son to face the fact that mom and dad are divorced?
"You can learn from Obama's mother." I replied.
Long before Obama was elected president of the United States, I analyzed his party rival Hillary Clinton and found some information about Obama by the way. I was deeply attracted by the story of his mother ann dunham. The way she told her son old Obama was great.
Too many people's hearts are divided, and a considerable part of the division stems from the division of parents' images in our hearts.
The easiest thing to see is that parents are divorced, and one party has great anger or even hatred for the other, so he keeps instilling some opinions into his children: your father (mother) doesn't want you, your father (mother) is terrible, and he (she) is a demon. ...
Not only that, the guardian will put pressure on the child explicitly or implicitly: if you dare to approach or miss that irresponsible villain, I will be unhappy, I will be sad, and even I will not want you.
Parents with custody almost always succeed. In the end, the child is very loyal to her (him) and even seems to completely forget the existence of another parent.
However, the child has the opposite power in his heart, and his subconscious will express loyalty to another forgotten parent.
As a result, the child's conscious is one thing, and the subconscious is another, so there is a huge split. This kind of division is not only a psychological division, but also a physiological division, which will bring many diseases.
Fortunately, Obama did not encounter this division.
Separated, parents still love you.