First, true kindness needs to be full of sharpness and boundaries.
We always teach our children to be kind, but forget to be kind and become good people. And the good old man wronged himself from the beginning, and it is easy to lose himself. In the process of losing yourself, you will become a passive Nuo Nuo. You don't know what you should do. You only know how to be kind to others and satisfy their ideas. True kindness needs to be full of spirit and boundaries and know where the boundaries are.
Second, let children have the ability to think independently and distinguish what is hypocrisy.
Teaching children kindness is not to compromise others in order to meet them unconditionally, but to respect others and let them learn to treat everyone equally and not discriminate against others. But all the premises are under the premise of not hurting yourself and not wronged yourself. That kind of forbearing kindness is not true kindness, but hypocrisy. When parents teach their children to go to school, they should teach them how to distinguish and have the ability to think independently.
Third, good people can stick to their true intentions after experiencing danger.
There is both evil and good in the world. We can protect our children when they are young and be alert to the dangers around us. But children will always leave and grow up. At this time, children will be hurt even more. We need to let children learn to distinguish right from wrong in the process of growing up. Teaching children kindness is also to let them think more and distinguish more in the process of growing up. It won't hurt yourself, it won't harm the interests of others, and at the same time it can stick to its own heart.