Instead of worrying about puppy love and looking for trouble, it is better to have heart-to-heart communication with children at ordinary times. Chat with children often to find out what kind of opposite sex students children like and why. Through these details, parents can master some real thoughts of their children, so as to educate and guide them. Parents' beloved son has a far-reaching influence. Don't be ashamed to talk about sex with children, but instill correct sexual knowledge in children and make them aware of the dangers and consequences.
2. Be sure to trust children.
Some parents will look through their children's schoolbags, mobile phones and diaries. In order to master the children's school status, teachers are even required to intervene, trying to nip the bud of "puppy love" in the cradle. However, these operations will only make children more silent or irritable, choose to hide their true state, and refuse their parents thousands of miles away. At that time, parents would really be powerless. On the one hand, adolescent children face heavy academic pressure, on the other hand, they also face the natural needs of physical and psychological development. Everyone will have their own secrets, as long as parents have a good grasp of the general direction and don't make mistakes.
3. The attitude of parents is the most important.
Attitude is very important when communicating with children. Communicate with children calmly, instead of going online at the beginning and rushing to walk all kinds of obstacles. Listen to children's thoughts, make children realize that their parents are willing to understand themselves, help children analyze and solve problems, let children open their hearts to their parents, and finally achieve satisfactory communication results.