Although I have been in hospital for a long time, I can't stay with my daughter day and night. However, I condensed all my exhortations into one sentence, forming a "one sentence from my mother every month". It's like a mother's outstretched hand from a hospital bed, guiding her daughter to learn to be a man. ...
The maternal love that children yearn for most is not the love of doting, doting, favoritism and selfishness, but the broad spiritual world. We can't let the inferior cells in the soul penetrate into the children's bodies. Often a fierce face and a sad face ruin their good qualities.
Trust is a good medicine to get through the heart, and too much care has become harm. Treat your child as a friend, and she will take the initiative to let you into her heart. There is another kind of spiritual power in the world that is powerful and beautiful and can overcome everything, that is, Chinese and foreign masterpieces! World famous works carve children's hearts with beautiful and noble emotions, so that children can benefit for life!
People's life is changeable, so we should learn to put ourselves in others' shoes. Above people, treat others as people; Under people, you should treat yourself as a person. Some parents complain that their children don't understand their parents' difficulties and don't wear non-brand names. Should we parents also reflect on how much aesthetic self-confidence we have given them since childhood?
Love Written in Daughter's Heart/Wang Yuepeng Ren Yanfang
A little girl who began to get sick three months after birth was hospitalized nine months ago and rescued as many as 59 times before she was six years old. But she began to write poetry at the age of seven, published her works at the age of nine, published her personal poems at the age of 10, joined the Hebei Writers Association at the age of 12, and joined the Chinese Writers Association at the age of 17, 65438. For such a daughter who will lose her life at any time, how did her parents train her to be an adult?
Don't get pregnant without preparation, become a mom and dad in a muddle, and don't wait until the child goes to school to consider the education of the child, let alone worry that the child will get angry after learning badly and forming bad habits. ...
What job is more important to women than child-rearing? Mothers should concentrate on raising their children before they are two years old. Education before the age of two can determine a child's future to some extent. The education of infants should start from the moment of birth, and the mother's arms are the first and best classroom for infants. Mother is the earliest and best teacher for children.
Ballads and children's poems give children rhythmic enlightenment in childhood; Fairy tales and stories develop children's creativity and imagination. Open books for children to read, so that children can love the magic of books in their young minds and become interested in literacy. The above three points are necessary for the growth of any child.
Children's ability to observe and think is getting stronger and stronger, and the more disciplined and rigid they are. Such children may get high marks in textbook study, but when they grow up, they lack creativity and are difficult to become useful.
When helping children overcome their shortcomings, they should be coaxed or even forced like taking medicine; Treat game activities like candy and make him moderate; It is both a need and a task to eat learning as a meal; For the arrangement after class, let him form a habit and persevere like washing his face and brushing his teeth.
Appreciate your children/Isabella Chow.
This is the most successful example of deaf children's education since the founding of New China. Under the patient guidance of his father, Zhou Tingting knew 2,000 Chinese characters when he was 6 years old, and he was fluent in Mandarin. At the age of 6, she wrote a fairy tale of 60,000 words. 1 1 was named one of the top ten teenagers in China. 16 became the first deaf college student in China ... and her father also grew from an ordinary factory technician to a famous special education. Later, he shared this method with healthy children and changed the fate of thousands of healthy children.
There are no crops that can't grow well, only farmers who can't grow well. How farmers treat crops determines the fate of crops, and how we treat children also determines the fate of children!
Farmers never blame crops for their poor growth, but look for reasons in their own planting methods. But parents always complain about their children when their grades are not good. How many parents look for reasons from themselves?
Nutrition that satisfies crops is the best nutrition, goods that satisfy customers are the best goods, and the method that children are most willing to accept is the best education method.
The secret of our education for children is that parents firmly believe that their children can do it. Even if people all over the world look down on your child, parents should admire him with tears, hug him, praise him and be proud of him.
Unlike ordinary parents, I don't stare at children's shortcomings, but look for advantages. Then let these sparks, through our parents' "make a mountain out of a molehill", make it form a prairie fire. Suzuki often calls some mothers "half-wolf mothers". He feels that these mothers are the best mothers in the world, both in material life and material life; But as far as children's spiritual life is concerned, they are "wolves" and they have no idea what children need!
The most important thing for parents is to give their children strength, and to constantly applaud and cheer for them on their life path. Perhaps learning to appreciate is the golden key to open the door to children's potential; Strolling through the streets and seeing an orphan in rags, we often cast sympathetic eyes; However, in real life, maybe the children around you are in a state of "hunger and cold", but parents are unaware of it.
Hold up a blue sky for my daughter/Chen Chunjiang Su Ying
This is a girl who has attracted the attention of Chinese people. She is not only among the best in academic performance, but also versatile and all-round development. He used to be the president of the Student Union, the executive chairman of the Municipal Federation of Students, and the vice chairman of the Provincial Federation of Students. As an outstanding representative of middle school students in China, she attended the symposium organized by the State Education Commission. She was admitted to a famous American university with a high score of 630 points in the last semester of senior three. Children are the works of parents, and their success is the result of their education. How did Chen Lei's parents educate her, who is also an only child loved by everyone?
The early development of children should not blindly impart classroom knowledge according to the characteristics of "prodigies", but should focus on strengthening children's intelligence and working hard to cultivate children's spirit. From 7 years old to 14 years old, this is another climax of children's intellectual development. If we neglect the development and education of their comprehensive quality, we will lose another "golden period" of quality education, and the children we cultivate are likely to be "semi-finished products".
Parents are very concerned about their children's choice of extracurricular books, and educational experts have different understandings of this. Our experience is necessary, but we should not be blind. Be good at choosing and pay attention to the right amount. People have different views on various learning remedial classes that have been running for a long time, praising some of them as good and accusing some of them of being profit-driven. However, some progress in Chen Lei research cannot deny the special role of remedial classes.
The fourth and fifth grades of primary school, the second grade of junior high school and the second grade of senior high school also have a "rising period", which will cause a new gap in students' performance; If you lack mental preparation and adaptability to these changes, you may fall behind.
Children are parents' refracting mirrors, which can reflect parents' ideas and principles of being human. Although we may not be perfect, we try our best to have a beneficial influence on our children in every little thing.
Walking with children/Cui
This is the training record of Beijing Foreign Studies University's first public doctor studying in France for more than ten years. It shows not the glory after success, but the mystery of success. There are not only openings for children, but also concrete and effective help for children's important life barriers such as senior high school entrance examination and college entrance examination. If you want to provide such help for your children, then the long-term accumulated successful experience of excellent parents must be worth reading!
The first three years of life are a rehearsal for the rest of life, and the first three years of personality enlightenment education is the most important lesson in life. Many people think that children under the age of 3 know nothing but what to eat, thus completely ignoring their personality enlightenment and ruining their lives.
As a general aesthetic education for quality education, everyone should learn it, but as a special skill training for making a living and starting a career, it is by no means accessible to everyone. For a child who has no innate artistic talent, it is undoubtedly a disaster to receive rigorous training in special skills at the age of four or five.
I think in primary school, we should focus on cultivation and interest. Learning cultural knowledge is not a sports competition. There is only one champion in sports competition, and the study of cultural knowledge is not so exclusive. Forcing children to strive for one or two points and the first place in the lower grades of primary school will cause their extensive thirst for knowledge to suffocate.
Ordinary parents only pay attention to choosing schools, classes and teachers. In fact, the most important thing is to choose students! Only the right competition circle can ensure that children have absolute confidence in winning. The competition of students is not the so-called knowledge competition, but the competition of peers.
The first serious and realistic critical moment in life is the exam in the process of junior high school graduation. Whether you can successfully pass the "senior high school entrance examination" and jump into the most powerful key high school will determine a person's life path.
Some parents who think they are knowledgeable have no idea what the college entrance examination is all about. They have not personally experienced or seriously studied the strict, closed and even weird high school knowledge system and entrance examination system formed in the past 20 years, and their words are either irrelevant or misleading.
How Kunpeng Spread His Wings/Ma Xiujuan
This is an educational note written by a mother who has trained two doctors. Her eldest son was admitted to Tsinghua with excellent results and went straight to the doctor; Her youngest son was sent to a key university, and after finishing his master's degree, he was admitted to the China Academy of Launch Vehicle Technology for a doctorate. A mother's experience in training her son to be a useful person will tell you that every woman has the possibility of becoming an excellent mother, depending on how you are a mother.
Being a mother is a woman's happiness; It is a woman's luck to be the mother of excellent children. This kind of luck will not come to all mothers, but every mother has the possibility of becoming an excellent mother, depending on what kind of mother you are.
If we have a little success, it is to boldly imagine children at the beginning of their lives, demand them with the highest standards, cultivate them with the highest goals, give them the most fulfilling love, and expect them with the firmest faith.
Our children have been studying very easily and excellently from primary school to university. Because in our minds, there is no "critical period", every growth period of children is a "critical period", and every period is "now or never."
As long as it is not meaningless destruction, I will never blame the children, because what they learn in the process of exploring the unknown far exceeds the losses caused.
To cultivate first-class talents, we must implement the strategy of extraordinary education. Our method is "ahead and beyond the norm". Advance refers to surpassing the classroom teaching process in learning progress; In particular, it refers to the degree of surpassing textbooks in the measurement and difficulty of knowledge.
I am not a perfect person, but it is possible for me to raise my children as perfect as possible. I keep the negative, confused and confused side of the years in my heart, and always teach children positive, bright and beautiful things in daily life; Cultivate their virtues of honesty, kindness, friendship and enterprising in ordinary trivial matters.
Notes on child prodigy training/Wang Zemin
Wang Naiqing is the child with the highest IQ in Taiwan Province Province so far. He can read newspapers at the age of 3 and speak fluent English at the age of 8, and he is outstanding in natural science fields such as astronomy and physics. His deeds were widely reported by Taiwan Province Province and overseas media. Although his father is just an ordinary man who runs a small restaurant, he can be called a great expert in education. He has many original ideas and experiences about the early education and cultivation of children, which are worth savoring by every new parent.
Many friends asked me: "Lao Wang! Wang Naiqing, how did you teach it? " I always tell him: "I didn't teach Wang Naiqing, I just followed his talent and let him develop freely."
If he asks any questions, we won't give him an answer easily! We help him buy books and find answers with him. So far, Wang Naiqing has three bookcases of books. I hope you can also help your children build a "scholarly world" of their own.
"He wants to tutor me and let him tutor. If he wants to buy something, I will give him money. Does that mean I still don't love him? " No! This is not love. True love should be caring for him, helping him, guiding him and making him feel the warmth of his family. Can these be replaced by money?
We often discuss the problem of raising children together after they fall asleep, so we never blush and have a thick neck in front of children. In the eyes of children, it is very important for parents to always agree.
After Wang Naiqing was born, his mother quit her job in the district attorney's office to concentrate on taking care of the children at home, and I gradually gave up almost all social activities. A friend asked me. "Have you sacrificed too much?" I always say, "Do you want money or a son?"
We pay great attention to every little detail in our daily life. We take Wang Naiqing out to play every Sunday, which is definitely for educational purposes. We buy toys for him and play games with him ... every move can be said, and every word is instructive.
That's how we teach our children to draw/Bu Wangwei-qing makes a point.
Bu Yong can be said to be one of the most famous children painters after the founding of the People's Republic of China. At the age of 8, he won the first prize in the National Children's Painting Competition. At the age of 9, he published the first collection of children's paintings in New China, accompanied by the poems of the famous poet Ke Yan, and distributed it to the whole world in seven languages; Since 12, he has successfully held a series of solo exhibitions in Chinese mainland, Hong Kong, Macao and overseas. His sister Hua Bo is equally outstanding. In order to cultivate a pair of children, their parents have studied, studied and explored the laws of children's art education for a long time, and summed up a set of quite effective early art education experiences. ...
We don't think anyone who has received early art education must become an artist; I don't think anyone with an early painting education will necessarily become an extraordinary genius. However, we believe that children who have received early art education will certainly improve their intelligence and have the spiritual qualities needed by modern talents from all walks of life.
Almost every child likes painting when he was a child, and he is a very talented little painter. However, some children can't get the attention and training of adults, and the flame of genius will soon go out. The correct guidance method can make the flame of creation burn. We train Bu Yong and Hua Bo to paint, not to teach him painting skills by hand, but to create various conditions for him to experience, discover and express the beauty in life with his eyes, his heart and his hands in his rich childhood life and in the process of contacting various art forms.
When cultivating children's painting, adults should maintain and develop the unique things on children and pens. The improvement of children's painting level is not simply to the level of adults, nor is it to imitate things that are repeatedly shown to adults prematurely.
The most shocking thing for human beings is emotion, and the expression of emotion is the most powerful factor in any way. Only when the spark of life is ignited and the passionate emotion is triggered will the works of art with touching power be produced.
A painting is the sum of all one's artistic achievements. To improve the expressive force of children's painting, children should not only try to hone their artistic language, but more importantly, strengthen their work outside painting.
Son, you go forward boldly.
This is a typical example from failure to success! A child who has not received any early education and has an average grade in junior high school has been taught by his father's original "early induction" theory, and his academic performance has soared. He not only passed the junior class of China University of Science and Technology, but also studied as a postdoctoral fellow in a famous American university. If your child misses the opportunity of early education, don't worry, you can also do this kind of "early induction", which may also make your eyes shine.
Today's children, except for a few children with special circumstances, have little difference in intelligence. However, why are there differences in their academic performance? The important reason is that non-intellectual factors play different roles.
"Stimulating interest" is the first link in the early inductive principle system; That is, first understand the child, carefully analyze the child's specialties, make clear the future development direction of the child, and then cultivate the child's interest in that direction according to the general development direction of the child.
After the initial success of inducing children's interest in learning, we should seize the opportunity to carry out belief quality, mainly the induction and cultivation of self-confidence. In a word, it is "try to let children experience the joy and experience of success".
Emotion is closely related to intellectual development. Positive and stable emotions are the motivation to motivate children to learn and the guarantee to promote learning progress. Children who are prone to mood swings have unstable interest in learning and lack confidence in learning.
Consciousness plays a great role in children's growth and intellectual development. Young college students are not mysterious, because children of the same age have consciously studied cultural knowledge while they are still playing to kill time.
Children's personality is closely related to their intellectual development. Many parents don't pay much attention to it. They always feel that children are still young and have good and bad personalities, which does not hinder the overall situation. When children grow up, bad characters have been formed, and they feel that it is a foregone conclusion and cannot be changed. Both of these understandings are one-sided.
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