Children should not be greedy, they should do what they can, and so should their parents. They shouldn't leave their children alone.

And children can't do everything after they make mistakes. They must be made aware of the seriousness of the situation and remember the consequences of this mistake.

Bell has a good education for Martha. Usually let her tinker, usually ignore it. After all, naughty is a child's nature. I can't stay at home with my children all day, I won't go anywhere, and I won't get into any trouble. This is simply unrealistic.

Parents can appropriately let go of their rights and reduce their desire to control their children. For example, Martha's porridge is cooked, and finally she has to solve it herself, and she still has to drink a lot of cereal left by herself.

On this basis, I believe Martha has deeply realized that she must eat according to her appetite, otherwise she will suffer.

What should children do if they do something wrong?

Every child is bound to make no mistakes when growing up. The most important thing is how parents treat their children's mistakes.

It is necessary to know that different treatment methods will bring different influences to children's personality, so when children do something wrong, parents should pay attention to the following points:

Parents should be calm.

Many parents always lose their temper and scold their baby at the first time after learning that their children have done something wrong. Actually, this is not right. Parents should calm down first.

What's the point of losing your temper? As long as the moral bottom line is not involved, or the situation is not serious, you can calm down first and then ask the reason. Your reason will calm the child's nervousness and guilt and help to find out the reason.

2) establish contact with children.

I believe most parents don't know much about it? Establish contact with children? What do you mean? The specific operation method is to squat down, look straight at the child with your eyes, not too sharp, and don't scare the child.

Secondly, use body language to express your understanding of children, let them say their feelings at the moment and express their feelings.

Finally, after the event is resumed, we will discuss the solution. Encourage children afterwards. After all, they are willing to summon up the courage to admit their mistakes in this matter.

3) Solve the problem

After the solution is finally discussed, parents can't do the finishing work alone. It is recommended to focus on children, and you can help solve the problem together. In this way, children can get real feelings and lessons from the incident and avoid committing it again in the future.

What should parents do to best educate their children?

Children's mistakes are only the smallest part of their growth. From a big perspective, parents have a long way to go to educate their children.

1000 parents have 1000 educational methods, which may be related to the degree of love of parents, the economic conditions of families and the personality background of parents.

▼ What should parents do to be the best education for their children?

Parents can only be responsible for their children if they keep learning.

No one is born to be someone else's parents. Everyone just goes to work without training and certificate.

Therefore, everyone is crossing the river by feeling the stones, taking chances and raising children by feeling, but parents should understand that parents can only be responsible for their children if they keep learning. A child is a flower in bud and needs good soil and nutrients to thrive.

And parents are the soil and nutrients, whether it is highly educated knowledge, or moral, intellectual, physical quality must meet the standards. Parents are children's first teachers and also a mirror.

Children who grow up with excellent parents are certainly not much different. It will certainly cultivate children's hearts and give them a relatively free and happy childhood.

A loose and tight education system can play a great positive role in the development of children's emotional intelligence and IQ, so that children can obtain healthy personality development.

The influence of family environment on children

Neighbor Gu Jia is a positive example. A family of three lives a life envied by people nearby. The hostess of their family is very quiet, always speaks softly and never makes a scene with people.

Therefore, family-oriented men are the same, loving their wives and children. Family-oriented couples, education is not too high, but not low. All graduated from undergraduate courses.

Usually, I am very kind to my neighbors and never shirk when I need help. The two couples have high quality and good personality, so the overall family environment is particularly harmonious.

The son they gave birth to is also a lovely baby, polite and filial, and gets the first place in every exam, just right? Other people's children? .

This shows how important the atmosphere of a family is to the growth of children. Children who grow up in a loving environment will be kind and warm people in the future.

Don't do everything for the children.

Nowadays, many couples are reluctant to have a second child, so most of them have only one baby at home. Under normal circumstances, four old people plus parents, six adults spoil one child.

Overindulgence will make children become irresponsible, self-centered, and ultimately will not succeed. Therefore, parents should avoid doing everything for their children.

In addition, most parents believe that children's main task is to study, and they must study hard if they want to have a good future.

As for other things, you don't have to worry about them, just leave them to your parents. However, the children educated on this basis may all become? Giant baby? I can't cook, I can't wash clothes, I can't mop the floor, and my self-care ability is almost zero.

Is this responsible for the child's life? The answer is definitely no, it is better to teach people to fish than to teach people to fish. The real responsibility for children is to cultivate their correct values and outlook on life, so that they have the ability to be independent.

Teach children how to behave.

People will meet all kinds of people in their life. People who come and go in life are doomed to appear, so we must treat them with wisdom.

Cherish those who are kind to you sincerely, and those who hurt you should not think that all problems can be solved by force. The fist is very powerful, but it is easy to lose 800 yuan. This truth may not be known until they have experienced it.

Therefore, parents may wish to instill intellectual education when their children are still young, and it is best to know the world and not be secular. Because there are not only various invisible rules in society, but also small social groups in ivory towers, parents should correctly guide their children to think, face and solve.

All the rules and orders in this world must exist for a reason, not just for one person. Therefore, when there is no self-interest, we must abide by the rules.

At the same time, we should cultivate children's self-esteem, friendship, kindness and kindness, and cultivate virtues such as self-confidence, courage and justice.

Raising children is not simple, but the truth and reality reflected in the cartoon Martha and the Bear, I hope parents can get inspiration from it and reflect on whether their education methods are the best for their children.