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How do pupils educate their children not to be lazy? What if the child is lazy?
1, parents should learn to let go: don't complain, don't blame, learn to let go, what is letting go? We should teach children to do things, to live and to learn, and then help them get on the horse, let them ride and let them do it themselves. When a child tastes the sweetness, he will change his habits.

2. Tear off the label: What is a tear-off label? Is to tell children that you are not born lazy, you can choose diligence, you can choose lazy quality or diligent quality, so I always thought that you were not lazy, but you were also diligent, but I never gave you a chance, so now I give you this opportunity, you can choose diligence, and you can only do diligent behavior after choosing diligence.

3. Teach children how to be human. When teaching, they should be calm and patient. In the face of children's laziness, parents should not complain and be emotional, because children's laziness today is caused by themselves, but it is difficult for them to face it. When it is difficult for them to face their educational mistakes, they will blame themselves. After blaming yourself, you will be angry with your child. So what are their emotional sources? We must first learn to forgive ourselves, that is, I missed the best opportunity to educate my children. I must learn to forgive myself first, because everyone is here to experience and feel. If the experience is not successful, it must be changed. There is no right or wrong. With the idea of forgiving ourselves first, we can re-educate our children and have the strength to support them and change their behavior.