On the day of the sharing meeting, Brother beginning of winter came to the sharing meeting early. His face was flushed with simplicity and sincerity. When sharing the process of children's growth and change, he said, "Keeping a proper distance is conducive to the construction of a happy family. I didn't take the initiative to contact my son, but my son took the initiative to chat with me. " He admits that each child has different personalities, different family environments and different growth rates, but as long as parents change, children will definitely change.
Guang Jun and his wife came to the sharing meeting with gratitude and joy. After Guang Jun came back from Yancheng, he took the initiative to study Ju Shuo, with witty remarks, encouraging every family member to be in place and get Ju Shi Zhuan. At dinner, Wei Bin saw the mode of getting along with my son and kindly reminded me that I saw myself in you and paid too much attention to my son. I suggested changing the mode of getting along. She shared with me in detail how she learned, practiced and changed little by little from learning Ju Shuo. Now that the husband and wife are in harmony, the son is confident to be admitted to the university. Their family grew and changed at a rocket-like speed and gained a lot of happiness.
? I wish my brother a family full of positive energy. Their family is an example for our families in Hunan. I wish my brother a year's travel, but he never forgets his family responsibilities. He keeps exercising every day, sets an example, and takes care of work and family, but he is still warm and peaceful. His son's language is positive and sunny, which is a far cry from the rebellious teenager in Changsha lecture hall two years ago.
Sister Yu Ying took the subway several times from the westernmost part of Changsha to the southernmost part of Changsha. This is a particularly admirable woman with a weak appearance and a strong heart. Over the years, she has actively participated in sharing meetings and lecture halls, and it is extremely difficult to save her daughter's body and mind. Her weak shoulders bear too many burdens, and her spirit of never giving up deeply touches everyone of us.
Sister Qin Yu didn't come because of her leg injury, and her care and warmth for all her family has always been there. Fanghua was stuck in traffic when she came over from work. Dai Hong, Xiangyin, Innovation and Tang Liang couldn't come to share the meeting because of something, but the offline interaction was pleasant.
2020 is an extraordinary year, and it is also an extraordinary year for me. A year ago, my husband and I experienced a serious emotional crisis. After the Spring Festival, my hand fell into a comminuted fracture, leaving a serious sequela. I also had two operations, but the pain didn't crush me. Over the past year, with the care and help of Mr. Ju and my relatives, with my persistence and unremitting efforts, my husband and I fell in love again, which made me really understand that true love is falling in love with the same person again and again. Now, my family is on track. Chen Zi studied in Hunan University of Posts and Telecommunications, and Song Lin joined the Beijing Garrison this year. Before, because of my ignorance and greed, my family took many detours. Now I am trying to change myself, not to be lazy, not to compare with others, and to surpass myself. I firmly believe that as long as I practice "gathering and speaking", I will certainly gain happiness. Mr. Wang said that Mr. Ju's salvation for his family and children has always been imitated and can never be surpassed.
The happiest and most anticipated moment is to connect with Mr. Ju on the spot. Chen Zi was the first person to talk to Mr. Ju, because he was going back to the online class. Although it is only a few words, Mr. Ju gave his son infinite warmth and strength, and asked him to tell his parents around him: study hard and make progress every day. Then, Yu Jun's son chatted with Ju Dad and asked about Ju Yuan. Dad Ju was very happy to show us the Chrysanthemum Garden under construction. It will take about half a month to finish. Welcome everyone home. Everyone present is scrambling to say hello to Mr. Ju through video. Teacher ju gave everyone a chance to ask questions. We left this precious opportunity to Yu Ying. She asked Ju Dad: What should my daughter do if she says she will leave with her boyfriend in the future? Ju Dad told Yu Ying: First, please tell her daughter Ziyin that she will always be Ju Dad's most distressed and concerned baby daughter; Second, we should trust our daughter, whose decision must have been well thought out by her; Third, when a daughter grows up, she is like a snowflake. Wherever she goes, her parents can't stay ... Yu Ying's eyes are full of tears and she is full of expectations for taking her daughter back to Yancheng. Everyone gave their own suggestions based on Mr. Ju's answer, and carefully wished Brother Zhu to check the authenticity of that person's information immediately. Tang Ge, Guang Jun and beginning of winter all expressed their opinions and suggestions.
? Time goes by unconsciously, and this happy time full of positive energy is always worth nostalgia. Everyone reluctantly said goodbye. We firmly believe that practicing "gathering" is the source of family happiness and look forward to meeting you again!
Emotional tidbits:
(Guang Jun) The long-awaited Hunan Great Love Without Borders Sharing Meeting has begun again. The relatives of the day after tomorrow, long time no see, holding food, fruit and kind jokes. I saw and heard that most families in Hunan have returned to happiness, and the children have returned to campus. I'm so happy for them. My son used to study so self-disciplined and diligent. Why doesn't he want to go to school because of a little thing? Later, he didn't even want to read books. I can't get up at school, drop out of school, stay indoors, don't communicate with people, and the law of life has changed. The whole family has changed spiritually and in all aspects. They are anxious, panicked, and have no intention to work or communicate with their friends. They seek medical advice everywhere, looking for a solution to the problem. Finally, they are destined to find a teacher who loves without borders. The way of getting along with children has changed, and I finally returned to campus after nearly 10 months. In July, 2020, I was admitted to a university, running for the secretary of the Youth League Committee, representing the English class, and being a school host, and actively participating in various school activities. One of the main manifestations of children now is a strong sense of purpose. Now I am preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination and postgraduate study. What kind of university, if there is no graduate student from a good school to study finance there? These thoughts affected his study mood. He said, I realized the method of communication, diluted the purpose, and did a good job in my present study life. The future work will naturally come, and now the child's heart has changed. To sum up, the more democratic the relationship between husband and wife, the less you care about the child, trust him and give him room to grow up, but everything will be normal. Deeply understand the theory and put it into practice, and everything will be fine!
(Yu Ying) It's very cold in Changsha where it just snowed. Hunan families who haven't seen each other for a long time because of the epidemic may want to get rid of the cold in winter, or they may want to get rid of the loneliness for several months and get together to keep warm in this cold winter.
When I came to the sharing meeting, Sister Lin Yan came out to meet me. We hugged each other tightly. I haven't seen her for a long time. As always, she is warm and kind, but she is more calm than a year ago. Walking into the venue, I remembered the lecture hall, the fearless and caring father, and I couldn't help but miss and yearn for it. Tang Ge and his wife carefully prepared fruits and delicious food. Everyone ate and shared their happiness. I listened quietly and my heart was full. Everyone sang "The Course of the Heart" with emotion, shouted slogans together, took a family photo and sent it to the group, and gained a lot of envy and regret, especially the elder sister, whose feet haven't recovered yet. I look forward to her early recovery and our reunion.
The climax of the party was to connect with Ju Da. Everyone greeted Ju Dad one by one, and Ju Dad said that he would attend the sharing meeting in other regions. There is not much time, so he can only answer one question. Sister Lin Yan immediately gave me her mobile phone and gave me this opportunity: my daughter said that she would go with her boyfriend in the future. What should I do? Ju Dad told me three sentences: The first sentence: Bring it to my daughter. No matter how many children there are, her daughter Ziyin will always be the one who is most distressed and worried about Ju Dad. The second sentence: trust your daughter, her daughter's decision must be well thought out by her. The third sentence-when my daughter grows up, she is like a snowflake. Wherever she goes, her parents can't stay ... I understand a lot when I hear this. I believe in my daughter, but I still haven't done enough. You have to study the residence theory again when you go back.
Finish your lines with Ju Da and let's continue the tea party. This time, the topic is about me and my daughter. Tang brother Zhuge Lidong helped me carefully analyze the situation of my daughter and boy. Guang Jun also raised his concerns, and my sisters helped me to give advice and encouragement. At that moment, I felt like a long-distance car, arrived at the gas station, filled up a tank of gas, and was ready to embark on the journey again. I can't help sighing in my heart: family, it's good to have you in winter!