Some people will ask, who will make fun of their marriage?

Actually, there really is. Some people simply don't know what love is and what affection is, and treat marriage completely by mood.

If you are in a good mood, you can have a good few days. If you are in a bad mood, you can find another battle. Marriage, in their eyes, is more like an emotional catharsis.

Satir, an American, said: "I believe that the family is absolutely different from the outside world. It can be full of love, care and understanding and become a place for people to charge. "

However, if there is no love, care and understanding at home, it will not be a place for people to recharge their batteries, but a training ground. No one wants to stay in such a family.

Si Jiesheng was born in a small county in the south and went north at the age of 20. Due to his low education, he was introduced by a friend as an electric welder in an electric welding factory. Sijie usually works hard, but his salary is not low, so on the whole, he is very satisfied with this job.

Chun Mei lives in the suburb of Beijing. She is the only daughter in the family and her parents love her very much. The welding factory where Sijie works is near Chun Mei's home. Sister Si is very practical. She has worked in this welding factory for four years. At first glance, all her friends are married and have children. Sijie is also a little worried.

Fourth Sister's teacher is a local. Seeing that Fourth Sister is nice, I thought about finding a companion for Fourth Sister. At that time, Chun Mei was 26 years old, and her family was anxious to find someone for her. After the introduction of the middleman, Sijie and Chun Mei walked together.

Sijie is simple and kind, and he likes Chun Mei very much. Chun Mei looks very handsome. Although she is one year older than Fourth Sister, she looks very small and her personality is childish. Fourth Sister thinks Chun Mei is cute and wants to take care of her all her life.

Two people dated for a year and got married.

After getting married, Fourth Sister lived in Chun Mei as a door-to-door son-in-law, because she was a foreigner and had no house. Shortly after the marriage, Chun Mei became pregnant, so she quit her job and stayed at home to have a baby. Sister Si still works hard. He doesn't mind that Chun Mei has no job. As long as he works hard, he can support the Chun Mei family.

However, life is not as simple as Sisi thought.

After Chun Mei resigned, he had a lot of leisure time. She sleeps until she wakes up naturally every day, and then calls her friends when she wakes up. Only during pregnancy, she drank several times. After the baby was born, she gave it to her parents without asking

When the child was two years old, Chun Mei still didn't want to go to work. She is used to living a free life and can't stand constraints. Fourth Sister always advised Chun Mei not to drink and make fair-weather friends, but Kechun May just wouldn't listen. Once, Sijie worried Chun Mei, and Chun Mei shouted at him, "It's none of your business! You live in my house, my mother takes care of the children, and you still have to be the host? "

This hurt fourth sister very much, and fourth sister felt very uncomfortable. Although she became a door-to-door son-in-law, she paid all her wages, actively did housework after work, and took her children to play when she was free. He felt that Chun Mei didn't take him seriously at all, only regarded him as a money-making machine and an emotional outlet, without any love that lovers should have.

Chunmei is getting more and more presumptuous, and she knows that Fourth Sister can't control her.

Chun Mei played too hard and didn't respect Fourth Sister. Sister Si really can't survive this family. He filed for divorce, and Chun Mei said, "Divorce is good. Give me the child and you pay alimony. "

Sijie agreed.

In this way, Chun Mei ended his first marriage.

Shortly after Chun Mei's divorce, she found another boyfriend, Xin Li. They met at the wine table. At that time, Chun Mei drank wine with him, but he didn't drink Chun Mei. He was unconvinced and went to Chun Mei several times in a row. He had to win Chun Mei.

In the long run, the two men struck a spark of love, got married and later gave birth to twin sons.

Xin Li is not Sijie. He has no such good temper. In his eyes, he can play ball because he is a man, but Chun Mei can't. He doesn't allow his wife to go out to play every day. Therefore, his management of Chun Mei is very strict. Chun Mei has never been so bound. After two years with him, he couldn't stand it. She made up with a young man.

There is no windtight wall. When Li Xin knew this, he flew into a rage, slapped Chun Mei and smashed his home. He said to Chun Mei: "Divorce, I will never be single with you!"

Chun Mei divorced again.

Chun Mei refused to give her two sons, saying that they grew up together and had a companion. Lixin agreed, and promised to give Chun Mei 4,000 yuan in alimony every month. Frankly speaking, if Chun Mei doesn't want to stay, he can take the children back at any time.

In this way, in just a few years, Chun Mei experienced two failed marriages.

But she doesn't care, because she puts the burden on her parents. After learning that Chun Mei divorced again for betraying her marriage, her mother patted her thigh and sat down on the ground. Pointing at Chun Mei, she cried and said to her, "Daughter, don't do this. You divorced twice, leaving three children. Neither your father nor I can afford it. "

Indeed, at the age of gray hair, parents have to help her take care of three children, which is already overwhelming.

Your own marriage can fail, but don't let parents and children bear the consequences of your mistakes.

Chun Mei, these three children are poor. I grew up in a family without a father. My grandparents take care of my daily life, and my own mother only cares about playing and has a bad life.

Chun Mei's parents are getting older and older. They often can't do things. They tried their best to help Chun Mei raise these children.

But Chun Mei couldn't see the difficulties of parents and children, or she did, but she didn't want to care. Because such people are too selfish.

They keep saying that they want to live the life they want, but they selfishly build their freedom on the pain of their loved ones.

It's too hard to have a daughter. What a sad life it is to have such a mother. What is the meaning of living in this life?

People like them will never understand.