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Family education includes inspirational education, habit education, classic reading, appreciation education, quality education, gratitude education, courtesy education, love education, suffering education, life education, success education, happiness education, survival education, labor education, frustration education, innovation education, handwriting education, awe education, and so on.

If parents do not attach importance to the education of gratitude, children's gratitude may be insufficient. If parents don't educate their children about suffering, children may have extremely naive ideas about society. Similarly, if parents teach their children to respect others, their children's awareness of respect will not be strengthened.

First News-Education of Courtesy and Respect

After the first year of high school, the children hurried home and reported the first news-

At the invitation of the school, teacher Yin Mingti, a social caring person, gave the first class for all teachers and students in senior high school, with the theme of "Filial piety first, morality first". Teacher Yin Mingti explained in simple terms according to Confucian ethics, combined with her own family education and 42 years of school education practice: Filial piety is a big root of a person. In life, Mr. Yin Mingti attaches great importance to polite education for children and school students: he must take the initiative to say hello to others and respectfully say hello to his family and all familiar elders. And I usually discipline children, and it is necessary to say hello. The child lamented: Your practices are exactly the same, exactly the same.

President Wang Xiuwen of children's school also asks all teachers and students in this way. When you enter the campus, students and teachers will take the initiative to greet you. Especially the amiable and respectable President Wang, his smile is always so bright!

Link 1- Yin Mingbiao

Retired teacher of xinghua city No.1 Middle School, Jiangsu Province, engaged in teaching for 40 years. Since 20 10, he has gone deep into primary and secondary schools, universities and communities in Yangzhou, Taizhou and other places in Jiangsu, giving public welfare speeches with the theme of "filial piety is the first virtue". So far, he has given more than 20 lectures with an audience of more than10,000.

Teacher Yin was born in a private school family, and his brother and sister were lucky enough to receive a classic education since childhood. Similarly, they also use the teachings of sages to educate their children and carry out family education according to the practices of sages. Nowadays, the next generation is very successful academically. His son and nephew are both doctors from national key universities.

Teacher Yin said: "The difficulty of filial piety is' color difficulty', and it is the hardest to always give parents a good face."

"The color is difficult, my son made it." Teacher Yin said happily to me who came to visit.

It can be seen that the best thing for Yin's younger generation is not their high academic qualifications, but their heartfelt love and filial piety to their parents.

Link 2-"Shout at once" (Yangzhou voice: busy shouting)

There was a child whose relatives came, and his father asked him to call someone. He was in a good mood to play computer games, and murmured, "shout at once, shout at once." This is not a joke, this is a true story. The child has grown up now and lost hundreds of thousands of gambling.

Note: Shouting immediately means shouting later.

Sunbathing in the hot sun-hard training

School military training, the child came back and said: some people fell, some people can't even stand shouting, he can still cope.

The child was very happy to continue to report that he often "enjoyed" exposure in the hot sun during several summer vacations in elementary school. Others probably don't have such training, so that they get dizzy after a little sun exposure-I didn't expect to be a little "tumbler" and the children also have a sense of accomplishment.

This is exactly: I used to be a cruel parent, and now my children are grateful!

Writing is like ants fighting.

When I was recruiting in the company, I found that the current interview forms were filled in respectfully, with neat and elegant handwriting and smooth writing. With fewer young people, the situation of college students is not much better. Poor writing, fluent language, and people who are unwilling to fill out complete forms are the mainstream.

Words are like people, calligraphy is the second face of people, and writing education is urgent.

Eating is also an interview.

I went to a company for an interview in 2009, and the applicant stayed for lunch. After dinner, the applicant's boss looked at the finished rice basin and asked with concern:

"It's all eaten up, isn't it enough?"

"Enough to eat, enough to eat."

"Is it because the food in our unit is not delicious?"

"No, I don't leave leftovers."

I didn't know until I went to work in this unit that the company provides three meals for free, but there are regulations not to eat leftovers. Later, I felt that eating was also part of the boss's interview.

My father hasn't allowed leftovers since I was a child.

Taoism is natural.

Now, most children are at school and at home. Without life education, how can children have thoughts, especially holistic thinking?

In my spare time, I take my children to see the dense river network in my hometown-one end of a small river leads to a big river, and the other end extends to villages and farmland through ditches and canals. This big river connects the Yangtze River with the sea.

If a small river is artificially divided and loses its connection with the big river, it will lose its vitality and gradually dry up.

Children can perceive holistic thinking and systematic thinking from the river that gave birth to me and raised me.

Rational three poles, irrational three poles.

I recall that when I was fifteen years old, I accepted the Three Altars precepts of Buddhist monks in Qixia Mountain. I remember when I first reported for duty, the teacher asked me:

"Did Master ordain you, or did you do it from your heart?"

"Disciples come from the heart!" Here's my answer.

I don't know. After I finished, the teacher picked up a Yang Liuzhi and hit me on the head for a while. I suddenly saw stars and felt something was wrong: what happened to me? This just listen to quit the teacher said slowly:

"You are very bold. The master didn't ask you to come. How dare you be appointed without the master's permission. "

Hearing this, I feel "right", which is quite reassuring.

After the first resigned teacher asked, he went to find the second resigned teacher. As a result, he asked the same question:

"Did Master ordain you, or did you do it from your heart?"

I was beaten just now, and I knew that I should "respect my teacher", so I quickly said:

"The master ordered me to come!"

Na Zhi's words say that finish, quit the teacher also picked up a handful of Yang Liuzhi, on his head, while playing and said:

"Hang it all, if Master hadn't called you, you wouldn't even be ordained!"

It's right to think about it. That makes sense. Then he asked me to go to the third teacher, and the question remained the same:

"Did Master ordain you, or did you do it from your heart?"

I have been beaten twice before, and when I have experience, I will answer:

"The teacher is kind, and my disciples come here to be ordained. Master asked me to come, and I wanted to come myself. "

I realized that this answer should be seamless and reasonable. Na Zhi quit the teacher still picked up Yang Liuzhi, after a beating blame said:

"You are so slippery when you are ambiguous."

Excerpted from Master Xing Yun's Life Through Hands.

Main chain nebula

1927 was born in Yangzhou, Jiangsu province, and 12 became a monk. The master advocated joining the WTO with the idea of being born and promoted human Buddhism all his life.

The Buddha's Light Society, founded by the master on 199 1, has become the largest Chinese community in the world and officially became a UN NGO as early as 2003.

In 2006, the master was awarded the "Lifetime Achievement Award" by the World Chinese Writers Association.

Conscious Education-Master Xingyun

Only when we are aware of our own shortcomings and deficiencies can we solve the previous problems. With self-awareness, you will be spontaneous, self-demanding and self-solving. We can be conscious and motivated, and learning will definitely make progress more easily.

What should we pay attention to in life?

First, I feel that my ability is not enough;

Second, consciously sympathize with others;

Third, I feel that my sadness is not enough;

Fourth, I feel that my will is not strong;

5. Consciously treating others is not sincere enough;

Sixth, conscious patience is not enough;

If you don't consciously, even if I give you the best things, it's useless to teach you more truth. Therefore, people should be conscious constantly, and consciousness will make progress.

Excerpted from Master Xingyun's March 23rd.