Emotional psychological atmosphere mainly refers to the feelings, emotions, conversations and upbringing of family members. Good emotional and psychological atmosphere is the main theme of family spiritual life. This kind of atmosphere is based on warm, harmonious, mutual respect and mutual help interpersonal relationships. It is manifested in the psychological compatibility, sharing weal and woe, equality and mutual assistance, mutual trust and respect among family members.
First, a harmonious family can give children a sense of security, and children feel happy in it;
The second is to satisfy the child's sense of belonging. In the family, children can feel love and respect, and learn how to love and respect others, so that children can feel "this is my home", thus enhancing self-esteem and self-confidence;
Third, a warm family can make children feel supported. When children are hesitant, hesitant, or encounter difficulties, setbacks, and discouragement, they can draw strength from family care and get guidance.
2. Create a good moral atmosphere for children.
A good moral atmosphere includes many aspects, such as respecting the old and loving the young, living in harmony, managing the family diligently, loving labor, obeying the law and so on. As the first school after a child is born, a good moral atmosphere in the family has a far-reaching impact on the child's behavior and habits. As the saying goes, "Look at the old at the age of three" embodies the importance of moral education for young children.
If children can be influenced by the correct moral atmosphere and then develop good moral habits, they will show good moral sentiments and personal cultivation when they grow up. On the contrary, if children grow up in an atmosphere of moral corruption and bad habits, there will be many problems in their future life. Parents are role models for their children, teaching by example is more important than words, and parents' correct education for their children is far better than others.
Parents will make their children have a preliminary moral concept and consciousness through moral talks and persuasion, and then correct their behavior according to their parents' teaching, and finally standardize their moral behavior; In addition, parents choose moral books that children can understand and have life guidance value, and set a concrete moral example in their children's hearts by telling stories. Children will gradually develop good morals and habits through conscious worship and study. Therefore, only when parents play an exemplary role in words and deeds and are scientific and appropriate in educational methods can they finally reap the positive impact of a good moral atmosphere on the healthy growth of children.
3. Give children full attention, patience, respect and trust.
If children often have unpleasant performances and appear to be very painful, it is very noteworthy. But parents can't ask for grades first. Unless he speaks first, he should pay more attention to things other than study, and give them time to spread their wings and fly while caring.
As we all know, Marx is a great proletarian revolutionary, and it is self-evident that he is busy and nervous. However, Marx attached great importance to the education of his daughters. Leave Sunday to the children and spend the happy day with them. Usually, Marx often finds time to play games with children in his busy work, such as folding paper boats with children, letting them float in the water, running races with children and throwing stones. Exercise their bodies and cultivate their courage, such as wrestling and getting up without crying. Parents who live with their children have a much more subtle influence on their children than those who are selfish for their children.
4. Family education should create a knowledge atmosphere and promote children's thirst for knowledge.
Family cultural background and parents' scientific and cultural literacy have considerable influence on children's growth. This is because of the influence of family members, which is a family advantage and an atmosphere. Parents and children get along day and night. The impact on children is immediate. If parents study their business hard and often read books and newspapers, it will have a subtle influence on their children, prompting them to establish the concept of loving science and knowledge, and gradually develop the good habit of exploring the unknown and actively learning.
At the same time, a good family cultural atmosphere plays an important role in cultivating children to resist and purify the negative cultural influence of society. Rousseau once said: "The happiness of family life is the poison of bad atmosphere". When parents have bad tendencies, the effect of parents' modification and correction is the most obvious.
In addition, parents should also protect their children's learning environment, and don't interfere or destroy it at will, so that children can have a small garden where they can concentrate on learning and exploring. Only in this way can we lay a good foundation for children's future success.
5. The family should have a democratic atmosphere.
The democratic atmosphere is characterized by the attitude of equality, respect, trust and support among family members, the ability to listen to the opinions of others (including children), the ability to openly exchange opinions, and the important decisions must be discussed and resolved by the whole family. Democratic atmosphere has a very important influence on the cultivation of children's independent ability.
In the past family concept, children were regarded as equal and independent individuals, but the private property of parents. Once parents possess their children psychologically, they will ask them to turn around the baton of adults and do everything for them. In this way, children are too dependent on adults and become "a generation that is not big enough to be independent."
Therefore, we should start with early childhood education, give them equal opportunities for communication and independence in a democratic and free atmosphere, and let them fully release their individuality and creativity. Create a complete independent personality. At the same time, a good democratic atmosphere also has an important influence on children's innovative ability. If the family lacks a democratic atmosphere, it will suppress children's consciousness and innovative spirit, and children's innovative ability will certainly not be developed.
In short, how children grow up is directly related to their parents. If family education provides a good foundation for children. Then, in any future period, children will take many detours less.
Only fertile soil can grow good crops, and only a good family environment can cultivate extremely intelligent children. Only when children enjoy the fun of intellectual activities in a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere will they naturally cultivate a good intellectual skills.
Childhood is a critical period for a person's development, so creating a good family atmosphere is the core part of children's education. Parents should create a harmonious, beautiful and kind family atmosphere for their children.
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