In the next time, my daughter only needs to make one mistake. My daughter began to cry before I could wait for Lu Rui to criticize her. Her daughter's performance makes you depressed and worried. She didn't know that her daughter had made a mistake. I said that my daughter began to cry, not because she couldn't understand the mistake, but because the stone was very painful. In fact, most parents around us will face such a situation, that is, they will find that their children will never say anything, and they will cry every time without waiting for open criticism, which makes their parents very upset. But you are also worried that not pointing out their mistakes will make children form bad habits.
When parents encounter such a situation, how do you solve this problem? How to face a lost child? This is a skill that our parents must master. Because I will have children when I am bored, which will really create a fragile character. What is emotional management training? Emotion is an attitude experience, and people's external expression of external objective things meets their own needs. A person's behavior and its consequences are often extremely important to have personal emotional control. As the name implies, it aims to do some training that can control emotions. You can improve and control yourself, you can calm and tense emotions, and you can also express your emotions in the right way.
Any other form of explanation, analysis, suggestion, preaching and criticism, needless to say, don't try to tell him, and don't ask him to make sure it won't be like this. Only when he really calms down can only his parents be listening. Children's emotions flow naturally. Don't judge and accept, let the child express dissatisfaction, let the child feel that his mood is accepted, and his emotional temperature will naturally drop. Therefore, for children, it will gradually become so unacceptable. I believe I have the ability to solve negative emotions. Such a child has a strong heart and strong toughness.
We should go to the children's hearts, talk to them and tell them the wrong mistakes, but it doesn't mean it's the mother's fault, so the baby should stop crying. If this lasts a little longer, the child will form a conscious consciousness. When you look after your child, you must be concise, just accept his emotions, and let the child know that his parents love him, but it is impossible to avoid responsibility with this kind of love. In the case of attracting children, I must tell him that you can't do anything else after receiving his emotions, and tell him what to do, because the children are calm and may listen. Parents' words make children's emotions flow naturally. Don't judge and accept, let the child express dissatisfaction, let the child feel that his mood is accepted, and his emotional temperature will naturally drop. With a sense of independence, he can control his emotions. He will grow up slowly and know when to calm down. At this time, the child is still very young and does not know how to control his emotions, so trying to keep him calm will only avoid the child's mental breakdown and will not make him too excited.
Let children express positive feelings and negative emotions. Let the children say "I love you, Mom" and also say "I am very angry with you, Mom". This will allow children to vent their negative emotions and seek psychological balance. It is difficult for your children to express their feelings freely, but it is undoubtedly necessary. Let children dispel negative emotions and express their inner words, so that children and parents can have no knot and be more harmonious.
Considering the needs of children, children are small but complicated. For example, the child is crying, or may be hungry, thirsty or sleepy. Another child is hungry and sleepy. Don't cry, but don't let him play in the small garden, but very angry. In short, parents should understand their children's characteristics and meet their reasonable needs. Teach children to adjust their emotions. Children are emotional and difficult to control. Parents should take action. Older children should train themselves to control their emotions. The influence of parents' behavior on children, people's emotions are easily "infected", and children are more likely to be infected by adults. Parents' good feelings and harmonious family life atmosphere are the environmental basis for cultivating children's healthy psychology. More conducive to the parent-child relationship between parents and children, but also conducive to family harmony!