I have seen Wolf Dad and Tiger Mom on the Internet. A child's father just wants to keep his child in the rain. It's raining so hard that the children are five or six years old. "Wolf Dad" runs behind, and the children run in front. In this way, the child's physical quality is still good, and the child's self-control and independence are relatively strong, but I don't think the father of the child needs to be so harsh. There is also a "tiger mother", whose education method is milder and more euphemistic than that of "wolf dad", but there are also very severe reprimands and beatings. Children are "slippery" and afraid of "tiger mother". I don't think this method is appropriate either.
Yes, the most important thing in educating children is to cultivate their learning, which is our unshirkable responsibility as parents. We should start from ourselves and guide children to be interested in learning. After the children's mid-term exam, the teacher asked the parents to have a meeting, which was to sum up their academic achievements, how to raise their achievements and their performance in class. When it comes to grades, my children's grades fluctuate, they are not focused in class, they are not serious and careless in their homework, and they are dizzy in their homework. After listening to what the teacher told me about children at the parent-teacher meeting, I made up my mind to get rid of the shortcomings of children. The parents of several excellent children spoke. Combined with the speeches of parents of excellent children, they are really well matched with their parents. Their speeches were clear and just right. I still remember the main points of their speech very clearly. I write the relevant content on paper, mainly to let children think independently, let children know the importance of the problem and ask more why. Let children have a good mood, that is, study easily and happily, without any burden, have an independent space of their own, guide children to be interested in learning, improve their learning attitude in optimism, carefully check their homework, let children carefully examine the questions and write, and help children analyze the wrong questions and correct them if there are any mistakes, so as to prevent the same mistakes from happening next time and urge them to consciously correct them. Children have a playful nature. Confucius said, "Knowing is not as good as being kind, and being kind is not as good as being happy." It is to ask children to have fun in learning.
I remembered the text "Upper Zhong Yong" that we learned when we were children. Fang Zhongyong was born with wisdom and talent. His innate talent far exceeds that of ordinary talented people, but it is an innate talent. His father didn't do the training the day after tomorrow, and he became an ordinary person. If his father is well educated, he may become a master. It can be seen how important education is, so parents have to educate their children locally. Yes, an excellent child's grades don't come out of thin air, or his parents' education methods are good, and their parents have paid a lot. They communicate with their children and regard themselves as their friends, making them feel that their parents have no shelf and are very close.
I didn't do it. I must reflect on my mistakes and shortcomings. I want to actively learn from the parents of excellent children, take their education seriously, be a qualified parent and devote myself to their shortcomings. If I want to communicate with the teacher often, I will try my best to educate my children what they have learned and make them excellent children. In mathematics, I just look at the computer, remember the key and difficult problems, and let the children do math problems regularly. Chinese is to let children read more extracurricular books, go to bookstores, increase their knowledge, help their writing, travel outside, see the outside world, and let them feel the wonderful life; English means reading more, reading more and writing more, which will improve English grades.
To make our children better, we must take their education seriously, especially the education methods. We hope that children will live a happy life and grow into useful talents for the country.