Hello, now that the second child policy is open, many families choose to have a second child, but sometimes it is normal to have a second child and be afraid of the boss. Moreover, in life, we often encounter similar situations. Dabao is often educated by adults at home and let his younger brothers and sisters do everything. When two children have an argument, parents will habitually scold the boss, "You are the boss, you should let your brother and sister do everything.". How can you argue with them? " But is it really good for parents to do this? Of course not. There are two children in the family, blindly favoring the second child has a very bad influence on both the boss and the second child. Because for the boss: before his younger brother and sister were born, the boss was the only child in the family and was loved by his family. But suddenly a younger child took away the love of the whole family, which is hard for many children to accept. If parents often tell the boss to let the younger brother and sister do everything, when the two children have an argument, the family will blindly favor the second child. After a long time, the boss's temper will either become very grumpy, and sometimes he will do unacceptable things; Or they will become particularly weak, indecisive and lack the courage and confidence they deserve.

There are two children at home, and what parents should do to make the two children live in harmony has always been a concern of many parents.

Parenting experts suggest that when a family has a second child, both parents want their two children to grow up healthily. There are two things to do: 1. Pay attention to giving the boss enough sense of security in life; As the eldest in the family, children often feel that their parents don't love them after having younger brothers and sisters. Therefore, in life, parents should always care about the boss's mood and show their love to him from time to time.

2. When two children are in conflict, tell them how to deal with the problem; It's normal for children to quarrel. What parents should do is not to deal with problems, but to teach their children how to deal with them. Because even if parents handle it fairly, there will always be children who feel wronged. Therefore, in the face of this situation, first tell the children who did something wrong, who must apologize first, and the other party can be reasonable, but no matter who it is, it should not be done. At the same time, parents should teach the second child to respect his younger brother and sister, and don't think that he can bully the boss when he is young.

The happiness of this world is that we learn to adapt to all unhappy facts, and finally we are very free and easy to be happy. Do it with a smile, do your best, and do it without complaint. Even if you are entangled in countless weeds, you can't get rid of it, and you can't lose that calmness. If you can do this one day, it will be a sign of growth. I hope it helps you.