Education is a kind of balanced wisdom, just like adjusting a balance.

If one side is more important than the other, there are two adjustment methods: one is to gradually increase the weight to the lighter side until it is balanced; Another method is to increase the weight to the lighter side, so that the lighter side exceeds the heavier side in front, and then adjust it. The former belongs to allowing gradual progress, while the latter belongs to overcorrection. Obviously, the former is more scientific and humanized.

Too many adjustments will make people feel insecure and it is difficult to achieve results. Step by step makes people feel natural and easy to accept. For example, love and rules, if sometimes too indulgent, sometimes too strict, children will be at a loss. The correct way is to pay love with rules and pay rules with love.

If there is no problem with the direction of education, the effect of education depends on the details, such as the timing and intensity of education, just like a five-star chef cooking. The same ingredients, the same condiments, and the different tastes of the same dish depend entirely on the chef's grasp of the ingredients, the order in which they are put, and the degree of cooking. Therefore, if you want to be an excellent educator, such as a chef, you can study more, practice more and think more, so that you can be really comfortable and creative.