1. Parents should be themselves and set an example for their children. Some parents hold a mobile phone to brush Tik Tok every day and laugh until they cramp, but they don't let their children put down their mobile phones and don't play games; I never read books, but I ask my children to read famous books; I always swear, but I ask my children to be polite and obey the rules. These practices are all about finding fish from the edge of a tree, and it is impossible for children to develop good habits and become a noble person. Parents are qualified to educate their children if they do well. If parents don't do well, it is impossible to educate their children well.
2. Give your child unconditional love. Some parents reward their children for doing well in the exam, and satirize them for not doing well in the exam. This makes children feel that their parents' love is conditional. If you don't do well, parents don't love themselves, so when children do something wrong or have problems, they don't want to tell their parents. If you report good news instead of bad news, you will miss many opportunities to educate your children. After a long time, it will lead to big problems for your children.
3. Strengthen study and grow up with children. The society is constantly changing, and the concept of education is constantly updated. If parents don't study, but they still discipline their children in the way that parents discipline themselves, it will definitely fail to keep up with the situation. If they fall behind, the children will be unconvinced and look down on their parents, and then educating their children will become empty talk.
4. Don't force your child and give him a variety of choices. Education is a cloud pushing another cloud and a tree shaking another tree. Parents often use their children's strong desire for control to force them to do things. When children are young, they have grievances in their hearts, but they are unable to resist. When children reach puberty, there will be obvious rebellion. We should respect children, let them make their own decisions, give them a variety of choices, communicate with them on an equal footing at ordinary times, and treat them as adults. Children will naturally get better and better if they are respected.
5. Discover the advantages of children and make them feel valuable. Some parents are well-intentioned and hope that their children will become better and better, so they look for shortcomings in their children and hope to promote their growth through correction. However, it is easy for children to feel inferior and feel useless. Without a sense of value, there will be no motivation to study hard and be a good person. Although no one is perfect, children will always make mistakes, but parents should first find out what their children have done well in their mistakes, and then carry out education, so that children will be more easily educated by their parents, and their ability to do things and attitude towards learning will gradually change greatly.
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