1. Establish the prestige of parents: If parents want their children to listen to their own words and be willing to accept their own education, they must improve their self-cultivation, learn how to be parents and be strict with themselves, so that they can talk about educating their children.

2. Learn to live: help children develop good living habits and cultivate their ability to live independently. For example, let children learn to wash their own simple clothes, tidy the wardrobe, fold the quilt and tidy the desk.

3. Learn to learn: Learning is a process of continuous accumulation and renewal. If you can't learn well today, you can learn again tomorrow. It is necessary to cultivate children's habit of concentration and seriousness, train children to write well, develop good writing habits, cultivate children's habit of reading every day, and cultivate children's habit of completing homework on time, with good quality and quantity.

The law of educating first-grade children:

1, fish tank rule. The tropical goldfish in the fish tank is three inches long, and no matter how long it is kept, it won't grow up. However, if you put this goldfish in the pool, two months later, the original three-inch goldfish can grow to a foot.

The same goes for children's education. Children need free space to grow up. Parental protection is like a fish tank. Children will never grow into big fish in their parents' fish tanks.

2, the law of wolf nature. Wolves are the most curious animals in the world. They don't take anything for granted, but tend to study and experience it themselves. The charm and novelty of nature always amazes wolves. Therefore, to cultivate children's super learning ability, we must cultivate children's curiosity about the world, let him observe life carefully and use interest as his learning teacher.

The south wind effect tells people that tolerance is more powerful than punishment. The same is true of educating children. Criticizing the parents of children blindly will eventually find that children are increasingly not listening to themselves.

Every child can make mistakes. Parents should tolerate their children's shortcomings, deal with various problems in daily life objectively, rationally and scientifically, and at the same time do a good job of self-cultivation in order to better educate their children.