A mother in Xi 'an called the police because she couldn't control her son's anger. This kind of educational problem has great disadvantages. This is because in family education, if children are educated by warning, then this kind of family education is a failure. Mothers can't control their children and hope to be punished by external forces such as the police, largely because there are great problems in education since childhood. For educating children, it is necessary to solve things in your own way as much as possible recently, rather than relying on external forces. Although the method of calling the police may be a good way to discipline children, it will also form a very serious concept that children leave the police and are basically ineffective for family education.

Perhaps this parent thinks it is much easier to educate their children by calling the police, but it also instills an idea in their children that the family can no longer achieve the goal of educating their children in the process of educating their children. So when the corresponding children have this concept, they can run amok at home. When children grow up, they may have a very rebellious mentality in society, which is very unfavorable to their future. In short, this method of education will definitely do more harm than good. Therefore, in the process of educating children, we must not use too extreme methods.

Using extreme methods will only lead to the extreme personality of children. It may be that when using this method, it will have a certain deterrent ability to children. But it will eventually cause irreversible harm to children. Parents can't discipline their children in their own way, and the help of external forces will only lead to aggravation of children. The correct education method should only establish the dignity of parents and better guide children to develop in a good direction.

Another major reason for this phenomenon is that parents don't understand their children. A parent who knows his children well can easily control them. Therefore, communication with children is an essential process for parents to educate their children. Only when parents are willing to spend time on their children can they solve the problem of disciplining their children more easily.