Goal setting
Encourage children to set short-term and long-term goals and let them understand the importance of goals and work hard for them. Whether it is to accomplish a small challenge or to pursue a big dream, goals can inspire their motivation.
♀? Learn to be flexible
Tell children that not all efforts can get the expected return. When you encounter difficulties, you may wish to think from another angle, and you may get unexpected gains. For example, if they are not very good at one sport, why not try other sports?
lead by example
Inspire children with their own experiences. Share your persistent moments, or how you made adjustments when you realized that something was not feasible.
Encourage and recognize
Don't forget to give your child affirmation and encouragement from time to time. Let them know that no matter what the result is, their efforts deserve to be seen and cherished.
♀? Flexible strain
Sometimes, giving up doesn't mean failure. When something is no longer suitable for children, or can't bring children growth and happiness, timely adjustment is necessary.
Decision wisdom
Teach children a simple decision-making model. Ask yourself, "Do I like this? Did I try my best? Is it possible to try other methods? What have I learned from it? Should we seek new opportunities?