Every year, kindergarten freshmen will see a large-scale "tragic scene". After being sent to the kindergarten, the child cried and wouldn't let his mother go. Mothers are also in tears, worried that their children can't adapt to kindergarten. Many children cried after they went to kindergarten. Parents usually encourage their children to say how good kindergartens are. But this method sometimes has little effect, but it makes children have psychological problems: "Why does mother always say kindergarten is good?" Is my mother leaving me? "This kind of psychology is innate and will stick to parents more. Therefore, this kind of education can't solve the problem that children don't fall in love with kindergartens, but it will make children resist kindergartens more and more.

What should parents do if their children don't want to go to kindergarten? Here are some ways to make children adapt to kindergarten life faster. You can take the children around the entrance of the kindergarten and then prepare to go to the kindergarten. When children see many children playing happily here, like friends and toys here, and are familiar with the environment here, it will be more acceptable for children to bring their children here to attend kindergarten. Because some parents are busy at work, in order to save trouble, children say they don't want to go to kindergarten, so they buy some food and coax them to go. If their children cry badly, they will even beat them and send them away by force. In fact, children's nature is to play freely, and even adults sometimes don't want to jump out of their comfort zone.

Therefore, as parents, when children show reluctance, they should first understand their thoughts and communicate and solve their problems in time, so as to better help their children and let them go to school happily. When children cry and can't say kindergarten, if parents just tell their children how good kindergarten is and how fun toys are, this comfort can't solve their problems. What children need more is the understanding of their parents, telling them how to face unfamiliar environment and how to get along with teachers and classmates, which are all part of their growth. It is understandable that children are worried and afraid. If they want to know that their parents can understand his feelings, they will have the courage to try to further adapt to the kindergarten environment.

On the other hand, if parents can't understand their children and their feelings, they will be afraid of loneliness after leaving home and have resistance to kindergartens. Sometimes children will use their brains to pretend that they are sick and don't want to go to kindergarten, or for special reasons at home, parents will give their children time off to prevent them from going to kindergarten. If parents often ask for leave for their children, and children spend three days fishing and two days drying in online kindergartens, they will feel that it is unnecessary to go to kindergartens, and it doesn't matter if they don't go. This is not conducive to the future growth of children, and parents are not good at managing children. Praising children's performance in kindergarten can improve their self-confidence. After a period of adaptation, children will take the initiative to go to kindergarten. Sometimes parents are too stingy in praising their children and carry out repressive education.