First of all, recognize your role in marriage. Now that you are married, you should learn to recognize your role in marriage. When you are in love, you can still lose your temper, but after marriage, you need to shoulder a responsibility and play the role of a good wife and mother. Recognizing your role in marriage is the primary task of managing marriage. Second, we should pay attention to art when dealing with marriage problems. After marriage, both husband and wife will gradually reveal their nature. When they become more intimate, they will also encounter some setbacks. What you see in each other is not only advantages, but also disadvantages, and there will be more and more contradictions between husband and wife. At this time, we should deal with the marriage problem flexibly, don't magnify the problem, and try our best to solve the problem within the contradiction. Only in this way can we get through the marriage crisis safely. Third, respect each other. In marriage, men and women should have equal status. Husband and wife should learn to respect each other, don't bully each other with the advantages of women, and don't feel inferior because they are married to each other's family. When you encounter differences of opinion, you should know how to respect each other's opinions. Even if you disagree, don't slander each other's views. Mutual respect and understanding will make the relationship between husband and wife better and better. Fourth, learn to tolerate each other. There is no perfect marriage and no perfect husband. Everyone has some small shortcomings, and husband and wife should learn to understand and tolerate them. I didn't find each other's small shortcomings before because I thought everything was too perfect when I was in love, so I would ignore each other's small shortcomings. But marriage is like a mirror, which shows both the advantages and disadvantages of two people. You will feel dazzled, but these are all true. While seeing each other's shortcomings, think more about each other's advantages, learn to understand and tolerate each other, and the relationship between husband and wife will be stronger. V. Respect relatives of both sides Many newlyweds will think that the parents of the other side are not their own parents, as long as they manage themselves, so there will be more and more contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which will seriously affect the quality of marriage. Marriage means that two families become one family. You and your husband are not only lovers, but also relatives. Moreover, the parents of the other party get along with you day and night, which is also a relative relationship. As a wife, we should know how to respect each other's parents, treat each other's parents as our own relatives, and reduce unnecessary disputes in marriage. 6. Actively express your thoughts. The tacit understanding between husband and wife needs positive expression and communication. Don't always let your husband guess what you think, let alone judge whether the other person loves you. Husband is not a worm in your heart. You should actively express your thoughts so that he will understand and there will be tacit understanding between husband and wife. Seven, try not to have financial entanglements. Money is a sensitive topic. When it comes to real interests, there are not a few examples of men and women falling out immediately. Feelings belong to feelings, and money belongs to money. It is still necessary to distinguish clearly, so as not to lose your wife and lose your soldiers. How to run a marriage just after marriage 2 How to run a marriage after marriage is a matter for two people, and it takes two people to work together to run a marriage. Everyone has shortcomings and advantages. We should correct our own shortcomings and learn from each other's advantages. Trust is very important for establishing trust between husband and wife, and it is a bridge between husband and wife's feelings. With trust, the life of husband and wife can be happier and their feelings can be stronger. If there is no trust, a little thing and estrangement will cause quarrels between husband and wife, which will easily destroy feelings and make each other suspicious. Husband and wife don't have money disputes, and it's not good to stand out, so both sides should have economic independence and reach an agreement on consumption. Responsible couples should recognize their position in the family, shoulder their responsibilities and fulfill their due obligations. Take on the role of mother, father and husband and wife, try your best to do everything well, learn to share housework, educate children together and create a good family atmosphere. Husband and wife should also respect each other. Everyone is equal and everyone has dignity. Respect for each other's opinions, mutual understanding and tolerance, and more care and love can make the relationship between husband and wife stronger. In this era of caring for relatives of both sides, conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law occur frequently, which seriously affects the feelings of both husband and wife. Relatives of both sides should respect each other, work together to solve contradictions, and don't take extreme measures. Husband and wife should regard each other's parents as their own, and care for and respect each other. Deal with the kinship between the two sides and reduce the occurrence of contradictions. Respect the elders, speak appropriately, don't have direct conflict with the elders, roll with the punches and roll with the punches, care for the younger generation and be more tolerant. Relatives of both sides should also learn to communicate with young people, and don't blame them with the thoughts of the older generation. Active communication to maintain marriage is based on communication. No one is perfect. Both sides should actively express their ideas. If there are problems, we should point them out and solve them together. Otherwise, many a mickle will break out one day, which will easily affect the harmony of husband and wife's feelings. Don't be too aggressive in the way you speak. Anyway, listen to each other more. If there is something wrong, you should even correct it. We should learn to put ourselves in each other's shoes, be more tolerant and understanding, take the initiative to understand each other's preferences, ideas and values, and make marriage a shelter from the wind.