Cancel the "special" status of children at home and meet the needs reasonably. Let children know that they are fair to other members of the family, and make clear their self-centered consciousness. If a child enjoys his favorite food alone, parents need to take it away and separate it fairly. At first, children are likely to cry, shout or beg, but parents must never compromise and must persevere. With concessions, children will know that there will be another chance. Therefore, parents should be cruel, persistent, patient and persistent.

Parents should set a good example.

Obedience and coquetry love in parenting education is a wrong concept. Moreover, the lazy, selfish, overbearing and cowardly character shaped by doting will definitely directly affect children's school and social life. Mom and dad should set an example by themselves.

3. Create a good sense of getting along.

When children can enjoy it, they should first consider the elderly. When eating, they should first make good food for the elderly and give them a comfortable seat. Others should thank them for their service; When others are inconvenient, we should try our best to help and gradually feel help. It is pleasant to pay attention to others. In addition, we should educate children to participate in cooperative activities games, help them understand that selfishness is not a popular personal behavior, guide them to experience the happiness of respecting, helping and comity others in play, and learn to control their unreasonable mentality.

Don't let him enjoy himself.

Desire is the root cause of becoming more and more selfish, and selfishness will be accompanied by endless desires. For children, parents must not put him in a special position to enjoy and realize their desires without exercising their rights. Let them understand that it is as important to realize their desires as to exercise their power. If there is something delicious, they should not enjoy it alone, but should take the initiative to share it with others. In housework, they often think about what they should do to help their parents. In that way, children will form the habit of respecting the elderly and caring for others, and it is not easy for them to think only of themselves.