Don't care too much about children, and don't impose your subjective will on children. What do children like? What is your future ambition? Everything is natural. Personally, I think these honors are just icing on the cake, so there is no need to take them seriously. While the iron is hot, you need to be hard. The most important task for students is to study, and the most important thing is to improve their grades. The final admission still depends on the results. However, 70 or 80 years of life is not a 100-meter race, but at least a marathon. Therefore, a little beyond the starting line can not have a great impact on the final result.
Let the children develop freely according to their own interests, choose the right direction, develop well, and the children will succeed. When children can't resist the temptation and go astray in the process of development, they will fall short. Emotional intelligence, keep calm in the face of children's mistakes, stand from the children's point of view, many parents can't do this, always feel that they are right, why don't children accept it? Anger, anger. Don't just pursue grades and rankings, blindly increase homework and class hours, and don't talk about heroes solely by grades. Pay attention to children's physical and mental health, music, art, sports independent class meeting, that is absolutely indispensable. When children are not yet mature, we should not just wait, but help them solve the difficulties they encounter in their studies and teach them to study hard instead of sitting still. What I want to say is that primary school students learn the most, there are not so many extracurricular classes, and there is no need to do so many problems. Parents should not judge heroes only by their scores, but think that children with 100 are better than children with 90 points.