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The key to baby's enlightenment education is three years before birth.

Some people say that reading is a child's lifelong ability.

Picture books are the best gift for early childhood education.

But parents, do you think the picture book is right?

Educator Yin Jianli said that many parents think that children's early reading is dispensable. In cultivating children's reading habits, parents should have a proper sense of "grabbing places" and let children get close to books from an early age.

Someone once interviewed the father of Zhong Xinying, the champion of the college entrance examination: How does your family raise children?

Father Zhong has paid attention to the cultivation of children's reading habits since childhood, and there is only one way.

Children 1 above, many children's pictorial and picture books have been ordered at home. Slowly, children fell in love with reading by looking at pictures and listening to picture books.

The more excellent a child is, the more he can find the "reading seeds" that he has cultivated and paid attention to since childhood.

Proper reading can bring a virtuous circle.

Cultivate children's reading habits in the best golden period of reading, so that children can win at the starting line early.

Jason Wu, a tough guy on the screen, pays special attention to parent-child reading. As long as they have time, the couple will tell Wu about picture books.

When talking, they will ask questions and guide the children to think.

Driven by the question, it is easy for children to participate and actively cooperate with the answer.

No matter how the child answers, listen patiently and give encouragement so that the child can have a warm experience in reading.

In the limited time of children's concentration, the correct guidance of parents is the key to help children build their interest in reading.

Never wait until the baby is reading to realize this. Maybe he will get in touch with everything related to books at home out of curiosity.

Parents' initiative is the key to children's contact with reading.

On weekends, my cousin and my 2-year-old nephew went to the library to read books.

The first time I went, my little nephew was really excited and full of infinite curiosity about things around him.

In order to stabilize the "little beast", my cousin specially selected several colorful and vivid picture books.

Who knows, after reading only a few pages, the little nephew has no intention of studying, either looking around or directly getting started, and turning the whole desk upside down.

I can't sit still.

Seeing that other children are reading books seriously, or listening to their parents' picture books with intoxicated faces, my cousin is not calm, thinking that children love reading or not, or simply show him mobile phone picture books, saving time and effort.

At that time, after reading it, my heart was mixed.

Reading picture books to babies is far from easy.

Hu, an expert in parenting education, said that proper parent-child reading can bring a virtuous circle, and inappropriate reading is better than no reading.

Reading with parents in the wrong and bad way will only make the baby hate books and early reading.

It is not appropriate to accompany your baby to read picture books. Please avoid these five practices:

1, utilitarian reading

In early education, reading with your baby is more about creating a reading atmosphere and promoting parent-child interaction.

If you guide your child to read with too strong a purpose, it will make reading become something that makes your baby nervous, which is not worth the candle.

2. Read by clicking on words

When a baby listens to a picture book, the first thing he receives is the transmission of sound and the impact of vision. Before the age of 2, Chinese characters or English words are graphics for babies, not text symbols with specific meanings.

Don't ignore the law of baby's psychological development, and let the baby read too early, which will greatly hinder the development of baby's curiosity and desire to explore.

3, inductive reading.

When reading a story picture book, the story itself has a certain central meaning and truth, which the baby can't understand.

In parent-child reading, don't instill the so-called "truth" into the baby too early, so as to avoid the baby losing enjoyment in the reading process.

4. Reading alone

Since we study together, we should pay attention to the company of our parents. If the baby is allowed to turn over the books by himself, he will only regard the books as toys, and can't really relate to the picture books.

At the same time, it will give the baby an illusion that reading or not is only related to himself.

5, electronic equipment reading

Nowadays, e-reading courses are dazzling, and many parents will also find some beautifully animated reading courses on their mobile phones to show their babies.

This is not desirable. First of all, from the perspective of baby's attention development and eye care, try not to let children watch electronic products too much before the age of 3.

Secondly, this kind of reading content is more like cartoons, and it is easy to form a bad habit that babies love to play with mobile phones.

The above five kinds of reading minefields must be avoided by parents when cultivating their baby's reading habits.

As Montessori, an expert in children's education, said, everything we do to a child will have a result, which will not only affect his life, but also determine his life.

Making friends with the good friend "Picture Book" is a compulsory course for every parent.

Grasp the sensitive reading period and cultivate your baby's reading habits. Parents can do this:

First, give the baby a reading environment and eliminate unnecessary interference.

Because the baby's concentration is very limited, if you want to guide him to participate in reading, parents must eliminate unnecessary interference.

For example, put away toys, don't put snacks and other sundries, and don't read too many picture books to avoid distracting your baby.

At the same time, parents should not take their mobile phones with them. If they suddenly call or send text messages while reading a book, it will also be a huge interference to the baby.

If possible, you can take your baby to the book city or the library to feel the atmosphere of reading.

Parents should also set an example at home, take the initiative to read books and set an example for their babies.

Second, study with your baby.

The company of parents can greatly promote the development of baby's reading ability.

Relevant research shows that if parents accompany their babies to read, their concentration will be greatly improved.

In particular, the interaction between parents' voices and babies during reading can not only bring knowledge to babies, but also show their love.

High-quality companionship is relaxed and pleasant, and it is easier to help your baby form good reading habits.

Third, cultivate a sense of reading ceremony.

Reading is not a child's business. The more parents pay attention, the more the baby cares.

Fish Dad, editor of children's books, shared with friends around him many times: Be sure to prepare a special reading corner for children.

Even if you rent a house temporarily, you should pay attention to the layout of the reading corner.

The exclusive world is not to be disturbed. This also leaves a quiet time for the baby's little world.

In addition to setting the reading angle, parents can also fix the reading time for their baby.

For example, every day before going to bed or after school is a good time to study.

Arrange a reading time every day without external interference. When parents and children read together, parents should also pay attention.

Let the baby know when to do something, form a firm and powerful routine, and good behavior habits can be solidified into quality.

From the perspective of developmental psychology, the growth of a baby is a process of gradually forming self-cognition. His acquisition of external information, in addition to observing and imitating the surrounding environment, is largely related to the information directly transmitted by his parents.

Parent-child reading can not only make the baby feel the love and companionship from parents, but also set a reading demonstration for the baby.

Nowadays, there are many kinds of picture books, different styles and rich contents, so parents should not take the screening and selection lightly.

First of all, parents should take the initiative to choose suitable picture books for their babies according to their age and physical and mental development characteristics.

Secondly, according to the baby's special needs, such as whether the baby is in the stage of accepting complementary food and stopping changing diapers, use picture books to convey correct information to the baby.

Finally, make clear the purpose of reading. Reading is a kind of enjoyment, companionship and communication, and emotional interaction is particularly important.

In fact, instead of showing it to the baby, it is better to let the baby "play" the picture book.

According to the baby's age characteristics, cognitive characteristics and thinking characteristics, parents can choose picture books from materials and functions:

1, suitable for infants under 6 months.

Compared with adults, young babies look at pictures instead of words.

Therefore, when choosing a picture book, you can start with a black-and-white book, and then provide a design book with simple outline, bright colors and obvious contrast, and choose fewer picture books with words or too many words.

At the same time, considering the baby's sensitivity to sound, parents can prepare standardized and clear audio books to improve their listening.

Babies over 2.6 months old

Considering that the baby will begin to develop fine movements and visual ability at this age, and the movements will become bigger and bigger, parents can prepare some cloth books that can not be torn and bitten, and special-shaped books with strong interaction, touch books, hole books, pop-up books, flip books or push-pull books.

These books can fully satisfy children's interest in biting, tearing and turning pages, and promote the development of baby's hand-eye coordination.

It is worth noting that when parents choose picture books, they should not start easily for novelty, but must take the baby's health and safety as the premise, and avoid choosing picture books with detachable widgets and long fluffy fabrics.

Only by ensuring environmental protection and material safety can we really provide a comfortable reading environment for our baby.

Steve Biddle, a famous Australian family expert, said:

"Childhood is not a second will be wasted. Children are always learning, and we are teachers. "

As children's first teachers, we should not ignore every book that children come into contact with.

It's no use worrying. You may not see the effect in a short time, but please stick to it in the right way.

Grasp the sensitive period, follow the child's growth law, take his needs as the center, guide with heart, and establish his reading interest.

In this way, books will eventually become children's most dependent and trusted partners.