The reason why children are overbearing may be influenced by some living environment. For example, if you are the only child in your family, your parents will be obedient and overly pampered, and your child's temperament will become "overbearing" with the environment. As far as behavioral motivation is concerned, if a person's needs can be met, there is no need to make extreme behavior; If they are not satisfied, they will feel frustrated and behave in an aggressive and domineering manner. At the age of three to six, most children have this characteristic. As they grow older, their mentality will gradually stabilize and they will not be so overbearing and unreasonable. Of course, there are parents and teachers. We should also set an example. Children are deeply influenced by their parents and teachers. For example, parents themselves are overbearing, and children often find that their parents' actions can achieve their goals. He can also imitate learning.

Pay attention to cultivate the habit of reasoning with children on weekdays. When the child is overbearing and crying endlessly, make a firm move with a gentle tone. Take him to a place where there are few people, so that the children feel that this is punishment, and it will not make them too embarrassed. On the one hand, it also gives him a chance to change his mood. After the child's emotions calm down, try to persuade and reason and ask the child to correct. At this time, it is necessary to provide a good educational environment for children to raise some small animals: from the behavior of feeding and stroking small animals, cultivate children's heart of caring for the weak, learn to take care of others, take into account the existence of others, and then gradually reduce their domineering. I will not be overbearing when I get along with my friends in kindergarten in the future. Also pay attention to helping children establish interpersonal relationships. Children can learn from the interaction between kindergarten and small playmates, not to be too subjective, to think more about others, not to be too dominated by others, and not to be too dominated by others. If children can master these principles, they will still develop well in morality and personality.

Parents should not punish their children too much or teach them. When parents correct their children's misconduct, they should not let their children feel that they are living under the authority of their parents all day.

Don't obey children in everything. When a child rudely tells his parents to do something, you can ignore him.

Let children find more partners. When other children can't stand his arrogant orders, he will understand that to maintain friendship, he must change his attitude. Don't let him play only with young or old children, because playing only with young children is easy to form the habit of dominating others; Only with older children, and easily dominated.

Parents should give their children love and freedom. Let children realize that they are cherished in the arms and care of their parents, which can increase their courage to explore things around them.