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16-year-old son peeks at others taking a bath. How can I educate and guide him correctly?
In fact, this is his normal physiological reaction. I don't think this is a question that should be avoided. On the contrary, we should sit down and talk openly and correct our misunderstanding in time to avoid going astray. Traditional education in China can't keep pace with the times, and family education is particularly important for the healthy development of children's psychology and physiology.

First, speak naturally. The most appropriate time to talk is "borrowing scenery", that is, when you are involved in something with your children, such as watching TV or chatting together, express your views on sex and inspire your children to talk about their own views. In fact, children are not particularly concerned about the content of their parents' answers to questions, but about their attitudes when they answer questions. Second, provide books. Parents can choose books about sexual health education for them to read. When reading such books to children, we should also pay attention to skills, such as quietly putting the books where children can find them. If children want to exchange views with their parents through reading, parents should not refuse, but face it calmly. Third, written communication. On the issue of sexual health education, although the effect of parents' direct explanation is the best, if it is really difficult to talk about it or there is no chance to talk about it, it is more appropriate to exchange letters. The letter can be placed on the child's desk or bed, so that everyone will not feel embarrassed and the child will look forward to the next letter. No matter what kind of education, parents need to demonstrate with their own behavior. A family where parents care, understand and respect each other is the best environment for children to get healthy sex education.

Effective communication is an effective way to solve problems. I hope to adopt. Thank you!