But we talk about patterns every day. How many people are quiet? What are the models? This model is actually an inclusive person who accepts everything in the world. There is a core product: tolerance. It can be seen that it is very important for children to be more successful and learn to take care of their accessibility. Remember to let children learn tolerance.
Children still have many reasons to learn tolerance:
1. Accept your own kindness
Tolerance sometimes corresponds to optimism and prudence, which is a positive attitude. Song said, "If you sell your cave without enmity, you must wait for others." If you mind, it will also affect yourself, because you can't walk.
For example, if a child does one thing, some things are not perfect, such as 98 points, and there is a very low mistake. Some children will think, "I was wrong this time, but I have a past." Still pay attention to his children! " Some children will care very much, even because they are unhappy: "If I am not wrong, I really hate myself!" " ",the latter is because there is no tolerance, let oneself be imprisoned in the past, there is no such complacency.
Step 2 accept the kindness of others
Life is long and interpersonal relationship is very important. If a child can't treat others with tolerance, others won't really be children. It should have 1, right? Two very close friends? We tried. If we chat with all our friends today, we will definitely have doubts and disbelief about our attitude. Are we tired? If you have this mentality, it's hard to talk to it!
It is normal for children to be bullied by students, because they are small and insecure. But if you never reveal it, you can always develop interpersonal relationships with the mentality of "winning the imagination". In fact, the child will be very tired.
So, as parents, how can we let our children learn to be tolerant?
If parents want to teach their children an example, they are the best teachers for their children. Only by learning to be tolerant and showing it to children can children understand the word "tolerance" more deeply. Children will go deeper in ordinary life.
For example, if you are shopping with your children and someone accidentally touches you, you can say "It doesn't matter" with a smile. This seems to be a normal little thing, but two people take it together, but they explain what "tolerance" is and teach the children the first lesson. Because some people will feel reluctant when they meet someone on the road. I don't want to let go. I will fight with other people on this small problem in the street, which is totally unnecessary.
Don't love, don't be too good, let them know "tolerance"
Catholicism does not mean "ignoring". For the tort principle, the bottom line is that we still can't tolerate it. We will master the tolerance of children's education. If we love your children, I am used to it. If they do something wrong, we all feel "inclusive". That child will feel that he is treated like a prince, no one will stop to do one thing, and will gradually form a personalized personality.
The so-called "tolerance of others is great, tolerance of oneself is selfish." This is also a very strange ambivalence. In short, the tolerance for children is not 0, nor 1, it must be the middle value.
Let children learn to empathize.
Many times, we will have conflicts with others because people live for themselves. We all believe that we have been following this idea. If it happens, it will happen to everyone. In case of conflict, I want to fight for you.
Children may play when they are young, but their partners won't let them. The child will fight with him and bite my friend. At last, everyone cried.
We must educate your children at this time. If you learn to put yourself in the other's shoes: "If you are him today, you don't want to give your toy to others. If others want it, you will come to you and your toy will be taken away." . Will you be happy? "I believe that children think it will admit mistakes.
Sometimes children don't want to think, but I don't have the consciousness of empathy. We are parents, I have to wake up!
At this time, everyone likes to win the battle, let the child learn to be tolerant, and his world will be more open. Let your children learn to enjoy others and appreciate themselves under precise circumstances!