First, we should pay attention to guiding children's gender identity. This is very important. 12-year-old children are about to face the second rebellious period of their lives (13- 15). In this regard, parents should make preparations in advance to strengthen their masculinity and sense of responsibility.

Second, we should pay attention to guiding children to establish correct values. Parents should start from an early age. /kloc-after 0/2 years old, you can recommend some books on history and social sciences to your children, so that they can consciously start thinking about some problems.

Third, pay attention to communication with children. Parents should learn to put themselves in others' shoes. This kind of transposition should not only have one's own views, but also take care of children's views, as well as social, school and other factors. Parents are advised to start some professional counseling courses at this time.

Fourth, we should pay attention to the creation of family environment. A good family environment is very important for the healthy growth of children. Every adult family member has his role and responsibility, and the sense of responsibility of adults will have a subtle influence on children.

Specific methods can be communicated with parents of children of the same age, but remember that "there are no two identical leaves in the world", and so are children. Just give him love and let him grow up happily.