? How to discipline junior high school students who don't listen to their parents?
1, hit, scold, and be careful what you say.
Many parents have a bad temper. Children in junior high school are eager to correct their disobedience. If they want their children to be obedient, they will use "force" and "authority", and they want to discipline their children by severe means, even beating and cursing. Children, but it is important to remember this when children are in junior high school. The child's heart is fragile. If they beat and scold their children at this stage, it will have a psychological shadow on them. Therefore, parents must remember to beat and scold their children when educating them. Sometimes letting them talk to them in the corner may inspire their conscience more than scolding and punishing them loudly.
2. Listen to the children patiently
If you are an angry parent, the most direct reaction to unruly children is usually swearing. At this time, parents are advised to calm down, try to be patient and ask their children what the reason is. When parents focus on understanding their children's thoughts and trying to help them solve problems, they may find that their children's behavior is actually excusable, and they release a lot of negative emotions.
3. Patience education
Many parents have a misunderstanding when educating their children, which is impatience. Impatience in educating children can easily lead them to develop bad study habits. Because many children are influenced by their parents, their behavior is accumulated, and good behavior is accumulated into good habits and good morality, and vice versa. Every move of parents affects the development of adolescent junior high school students all the time. It must be remembered that when educating disobedient children, parents must pay attention to the proportion of attitude and speech, so as to help children develop a good growth atmosphere.
4. Discipline and cultivate children's independence
So contradiction is inevitable, and resistance is inevitable. There are various forms of resistance, some don't talk to their parents, some oppose their parents, some run away from home, and even embark on the road of crime. Therefore, it is not enough for parents to be satisfied with knowing their children on the surface. Parents must learn some psychological knowledge, especially care about their children. Only in this way can we know children better, understand them and actively educate them.
5, mentality adjustment
Do your own psychological adjustment. Originally, the child was not very rebellious or obedient. Sudden rebellion will make parents feel bad. You also need to adjust your mentality, do your own psychological counseling, and guide your children correctly.