When children make mistakes, what kind of education is the most desirable?
(1) To avoid exposing children's past mistakes, parents should talk about the facts and should not always mention their children's past mistakes. This will only increase children's dissatisfaction and pressure, and will have no influence on their future study and daily life. Exposing the wrong teaching methods will stimulate children's self-esteem and make them unhappy.
(2) When making mistakes, try your best to reflect on yourself. If a child makes a mistake and there is no sign of change at all, it is probably that he really doesn't understand where he is wrong. After all, the child is very young. For example, many children are very excited at night, running around the room, or shouting.
Parents should tell their children that the neighbors are sleeping, which will affect the rest of neighbors and cause conflicts between neighbors. It is illegal to educate children severely like this. Parents should be more practical, accept punishment instead of children, and let children calmly admit that they have made mistakes.
(3) There are many ways to teach children to pay attention to "tone" in public, and spanking education is the least desirable way, especially not to "spank" children outside. No matter where the mistake is, it is easier for children to accept it by appropriate means than by lecturing or scolding them in public.
(4) Children should be given "cool" space. Children need to review. Parents need to tell their children that their actions are wrong, and leave the rest to their children to reflect. This will be more effective than nagging and giving orders.
Control your anger, don't get angry with your children at will, even if you don't say a word, you can achieve very good educational results. Too much anger often makes children rebel. Calm down and reason with your child severely so that the child can hear you.
Teaching children is a lifelong skill of parents. We should learn to understand their feelings, identify with them, guide them and let them grow up in a happy atmosphere. Only by staying away from the education of beating and cursing can children be healthier and happier and cultivate excellent personality. When children make mistakes, from a certain point of view, it is also the taste of children suffering, and it is also a valuable feeling in the process of children's growth. Parents need to guide their children and let them know what is wrong and what is appropriate. I believe that children will get better and better.