First, strike education.

Many parents, when educating their children, like percussion very much. He thinks that as long as they keep hitting children, they will have unlimited motivation. Only in this way can we continue to become better. I think it's actually wrong to have such an idea. Children should not always be subjected to aggressive education. This will make children very lacking in self-confidence and always in a state of inferiority. In the long run, he will not only have problems in interpersonal relationships, but also have the idea of shrinking when he meets new things.

So, if you want your children not to feel suffocated, you don't need to attack education. What children are most afraid of is that parents will compare themselves with other children, which is a great blow to children.

Second, scold education.

Many parents like to scold and punish their children when educating them, thinking that filial sons are born under the sticks. But this way of education has fallen behind. Never treat children by beating and cursing, which will make them rebellious towards their parents and will dislike getting along with them very much. Over time, their hatred for their parents will become more and more serious.

Children don't want to stay at home for a long time, because staying at home will only make him feel suffocated, and staying at home will only make him feel scolded every day.

Third, spoil education.

Many parents are very fond of their children when educating them. No matter what they did wrong, they won't blame him. No matter what bad things the child does outside, parents will stand in front of him.

I think overindulging children will make them useless and annoying. If you want your child to be a good person, you can't spoil him too much, which will only make him grow up forever.