There is a saying in Zhuzi school: "The heart is the source of all things. A person's heart is right, and everything is right. If the heart is not right, there is nothing right. "

As the saying goes, the heart is often, and the heart is biased.

What you think, what you think; Your thoughts and actions.

Facing the secular world, there are many disturbances. If a person can have three hearts, he will get help from noble people.

First: awe is a lifelong practice.

Zhu said, "A gentleman is in awe."

Awe is an attitude and a code of conduct.

With awe, there will be less evil thoughts in your heart and you will do things correctly.

Yang Zhen, a famous minister in the Eastern Han Dynasty, was praised for his impartiality and incorruptibility.

When he went to Donglai County to be a satrap, he happened to pass by Changyi County. County magistrate Wang Mi came to visit. In order to repay his kindness, he gave away all the gold he brought with him when he left.

When Yang Zhen saw this, he was furious and said, "I promoted you because I know that you are really talented and knowledgeable. I hope you can be a good official. What you should do is to serve the country and benefit the people, instead of giving me gifts in private. "

Wang Mi said, "No one will know at midnight. Please accept it! "

Wang Mi suddenly felt ashamed and quickly got up and left.

Since then, "Yang Zhen refused gold" has become an eternal beauty talk.

It is precisely because of Yang Zhen's awe of his conscience, his trust in the court and his strength in his opponent that he has not been selfish and lost himself in the face of interests.

Know how to fear and obey the rules.

Without awe, you lose the bottom line and principle of being a man. Naturally, you will be unscrupulous and do whatever you want, which will not only hurt others easily, but also put yourself in an unbearable situation.

Only when a person is in awe will there be no end, keeping promise and stopping. In the hustle and bustle, keep a sober concentration; In peace, feel the beauty of poetry.

With a heart of awe, pursue the pure land of your soul and stick to your spiritual home.

Confucius said, "A gentleman has three fears: fear of destiny, fear of adults and fear of the words of saints."

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Second: Gratitude is a kind virtue.

Kazuo inamori once said: "Even if you encounter difficulties, even if there are sad things, you can't forget to thank others."

Li Wanchun, a famous Peking Opera performer and opera educator, began to perform at an early age.

/kloc-starred in "War Horse Super" at the age of 0/2. Mei Lanfang decided that he had a bright future and often guided and supported him in business.

Half a century later, Mei Baojiu, the son of Mei Lanfang, was invited to perform the classic play Farewell My Concubine. Li Wanchun volunteered to play a farewell role when he learned about it.

In order to repay Mr. Mei's kindness, Li Wanchun not only accompanied Farewell My Concubine, but also set up the stage in advance with the martial arts drama Jiulishan, and spared no effort to cheer for Mei Baojiu.

Facing Mei Baojiu's gratitude, Li Wanchun said modestly, "It was my mentor who taught me that made me who I am today. I just helped you. "

Rousseau said: "Without gratitude, there is no real virtue."

Be grateful and return. It's great to repay kindness with kindness.

People who don't know how to be grateful will lose their morality and lose their trust in others. Even if they are knowledgeable and talented, it is difficult to get recognition and sincere help from others.

The mountain is high and the water is long, and the road to life is long.

I am grateful for my parents' upbringing, my tutor's teaching, my friends' help, my partner's concern, my neighbor's kindness and the warmth of passers-by. ...

Let us grow up, there will always be people who share weal and woe; In the journey of life, there will always be people who depend on each other.

We should also be grateful for the relentless beating of life, the drifting away of friends, the stagnation of career and the aging of life ... Let us hone our will, distinguish right from wrong, strengthen our hearts and recognize ourselves.

Appreciate the gift, the loss, everything, and everything that happened.

Third: Tolerance is a broad mind.

Li Si, a famous figure, said: "Mount Tai can become great because it does not allow soil;" Rivers and seas do not choose small streams, so they can be deep. "

Throughout the ages, many loyal ministers, handsome men, celebrities and wise men are models of tolerance.

During the Three Kingdoms period, after Zhuge Liang's death, Jiang Wan was in charge of state affairs.

Yang is his subordinate, withdrawn and inarticulate. Every time Jiang Wan talks with him, he always keeps silent.

So, someone said to Jiang Wan privately, "How can you stand Yang's arrogance and rudeness?"

After listening to this, Jiang Wan smiled indifferently: "Everyone's thoughts, temper and nature are different, just like our looks are different.

It's against Yang's nature to praise me to his face. Let him oppose me in public, he will think that he is exposing my shortcomings and have to keep silent. But this is the beauty of his integrity! "

Later, people praised Jiang Wan's generosity by saying that "the prime minister can hold a boat in his stomach".

Don't miss others, just remember to be kind, tolerant and kind to yourself.

Conflicts and disputes will inevitably occur between people. Husband and wife quarrel, friends alienate, brothers alienate, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not uncommon.

At this time, most people become haggle over every ounce, often full of accusations and resentment.

As everyone knows, behind your concern, you left indifference and bad feelings, and lost tenderness and consideration.

"Caigen Tan" said: "Don't blame people for being small, don't send people to have private affairs, and don't miss people's old evils. These three can do far harm and better cultivate morality. "

Tolerance is a spring breeze, which removes clutter and opens the mind; Tolerance is a clear spring that nourishes the heart and washes the soul.

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When you are alive, you are always half-hearted, and everything goes well.

In the rest of my life, I hope we can all live with nature, everything and life with awe, gratitude and tolerance.

Authors: Snow falls without dust, writer, emotional counselor. If you encounter any emotional troubles, you can click on my avatar in the upper left corner and give me a private message. I'll help you analyze and solve it.