1, try to listen to their voices: rebellious girls are often full of self-awareness and emotions, so resistance and criticism will only aggravate their disgust. On the contrary, we can try to listen to their thoughts and feelings patiently and give them room to express themselves. Even though we may not fully understand them, at least we should respect their views and give them correct guidance.
2. Foundation of trust: Trust is the foundation of effective communication, especially for rebellious girls. We can build the foundation of trust by giving them proper responsibilities and freedom. At the same time, we should show our concern and support for them and convince them that no matter what happens, we will stand by and watch them.
Matters needing attention in communicating with rebellious girls
1. Care and participation: Understand their hobbies and learning, and actively participate in their lives. You can share common interests such as movies, music or sports, and strengthen your resonance and connection with them.
2. Set clear rules and boundaries: in communication with them, maintain appropriate constraints and discipline, and clearly tell them what is acceptable behavior and what is unacceptable behavior. However, we should also respect their individual rights and autonomy and avoid excessive intervention or restriction.
3. Encourage positive behaviors and sense of responsibility: praise and reward their positive behaviors in time to help them build their self-confidence and sense of responsibility. They should be encouraged to take responsibility for their own decisions and actions, so as to cultivate their ability of independent thinking and self-management.
4. Keep good communication channels with them: communicate with them constantly, understand their confusion and needs, and give positive feedback and suggestions. Keep a good parent-child relationship and let them know that you are someone they can trust and rely on.