The first situation: parents are also parents for the first time and have not learned how to discipline their children.
Every parent is just a child before becoming a parent. After becoming a parent, the pressure is also great. Life pressure, economic pressure, the pressure of educating children and the pressure of self-growth will all be on parents' shoulders. Although this is what parents should bear and face, they also need to get some understanding. Children see their parents yelling at them every day and lose patience. There are too many responsibilities behind them. Adults also have more emotions, but those that can be controlled will make children feel better, and those that can't control their emotions will suffer.
In the second case, parents with strike education may have grown up in such an environment since childhood.
People's habits are all formed in the family. When you see your parents attacking and belittling you, you are always comparing other people's children and never encouraging them. This is largely because they grew up in this atmosphere, formed a habit, and acquiesced that this is the correct way of education.
The third situation: I don't know how to respect the child as an independent individual. Sometimes children need to give feedback to their parents.
Some parents are strong because in their hearts, their children will never grow up and live longer than themselves, so they can educate their children with experience. But in fact, they ignore that children are also independent individuals, with independent personality and independent thoughts. Ignoring this point will lead to family conflicts that can never be reconciled, unwilling to change and unwilling to admit that children are sometimes right. So sometimes, you can boldly tell them that what they did hurt you. Although he may not listen, if you talk too much, they will notice that this is a problem. It's better than enduring it forever.