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Dear daughter:

Let me tell you a story first. It is said that there are four kinds of birds in the world: the first kind of birds are people who are born with good conditions and are willing to work hard the day after tomorrow. Therefore, this kind of bird can fly to the high blue sky when it grows up, soar in the blue sky and see the most beautiful scenery in the world; The second kind of bird is a stupid bird. However, this kind of bird is stupid, but very diligent. It always starts to practice flying before dawn, and then it can fly to the blue sky to see the scenery. The third kind of bird is stupid and lazy, so it has never flown in the blue sky, and it is too lazy to listen to other birds talking about the world scenery. It is willing to live in the bushes all its life. There is a fourth kind of bird, which is stupid and lazy. However, I heard that flying into the blue sky can see beautiful scenery, and I am envious. What should I do? So, I laid an egg and hatched a bird, and then ordered the bird to train well and fly to the blue sky to see the scenery.

After listening to this story, you must understand that your parents are the fourth kind of birds, stupid, lazy and speculative. Your father and I belong to the kind of bird that is not talented enough but doesn't want to study hard. So I can only live in a small city, doing the most basic work, living the most ordinary life and holding the lowest salary. However, our hearts are not reconciled. Therefore, we need you to study hard, impose all your unfulfilled dreams on you, and let you realize our dreams.

So, my dear daughter, you must feel a lot of pressure. I think we are asking too much of you. Besides, do we still borrow it? Love? In your name, say everything is for your own good, and say everything is for your future. So, in your heart, you don't even understand us? Despise? Ours. To tell the truth, I often stand from other people's point of view and think about what you would think of all this. Many times, I think you understand, you think you understand, but in fact you don't understand it all, and you can't accept it all. However, after listening to the stories of four kinds of birds, I think you can understand your parents a little. You are not only a continuation of our life, but also help us realize our dreams. Although in a sense, we are speculators, but we do this not only for our own dreams, but also to make you the first and second bird.

So, my dear daughter, you must think we look disgusting. Yes, many times, because you are not as perfect as we thought, we will get angry, accuse you and criticize you. However, have you thought about it? Your parents are stupid and lazy birds themselves. It is understandable that they do all this. Because they are not talented enough to control their emotions, there is no scientific way to guide you to grow up, so they can't help you in your studies in time? All this stems from their stupidity and laziness. Therefore, you should learn to understand your parents, and you should learn to tolerate them. Don't be angry with them, don't talk back to them, don't punish them by punishing yourself, they will be sad. When you don't understand them and think they are just stupid birds, you will be relieved. And you, a clever bird, would never use the stupid bird's method to answer blows with blows, would you?

My dear daughter, you must learn to understand the world of stupid birds slowly. Never think that stupid birds let you realize your dreams for completely selfish purposes. In fact, they are just attracted by the beautiful world described by others, and think it's a pity that you don't go and see it. So, I give you this dream to realize. Think about it, why don't they give it to other birds? Unwilling is just a small reason, but I hope you can live up to the years and make your life prosperous is their real purpose.

Also, dear daughter, you should learn to understand the ambivalence of stupid birds. When you grow too thin, they want you to eat big fish and big meat, but when you gain a little weight, they are entangled and worried that you will grow into a fat man. In learning, when you are serious, they want you to play for a while and worry that you are too tired; And once you relax, they hope you can get serious and worry that you will waste your time and delay your study time. The same is true of clothes. When you know how to praise, they are very happy, because you know how to dress yourself. But when you spend more time dressing up, they are worried that you will be distracted from your studies? Therefore, your stupid parents are a little crazy in your eyes, because you say different things every day and have different requirements every day. That's because you don't really know them. You even talk about them? Hypocrisy In fact, their inner wishes have never changed. They want you to be healthy, happy, beautiful and get good grades? Just because they are not talented enough, they don't know how to grasp these limits and how to express their ideas clearly. Besides, they are rude and often break your heart. So, dear daughter, when they make you sad, don't be serious, really make yourself sad. There are 110 thousand people in my heart who don't want to make you sad, but they are too stupid to do anything, so they use the stupidest method.

Dear daughter, you tested me today. What do you mean? Don't know what to say. . So today I use this passage to answer you, that's all? Don't know what to say. .

Dear daughter, mother stupid bird told you this today, just hoping you wouldn't become the fourth bird like me. The world of stupid birds, you slowly learn to understand and understand. Your father and I just want to do our best to give you love, care and strength, so that you can easily fly into the blue sky, travel around the world and enjoy the beautiful scenery.

Author: Listening to Flower Language

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