1. Changing children begins with changing parents.

Every parent should spend his whole life saying: I believe you, son.

Both parents have different growth experiences and values. If both parents can cooperate and communicate, it will undoubtedly be beneficial to the healthy and happy growth of children.

Children who grow up in a gentle and well-meaning family will have no major personality problems. There is something wrong with the child's personality and conduct, and the responsibility basically lies with the parents.

Spending more time with children is more important than anything else.

6. When there are differences in educational concepts, parents should not blame each other in front of their children, but try to understand the problem from each other's perspective instead of directly attacking each other's efforts to educate their children.

7. Only by leaving children with productive and sustainable wealth can they be truly responsible for their own lives.

8. Instead of painting a future that he can't understand at all, it is better to give your child a clear small goal:

Read a book for an hour every day, let him know where his direction is and let the children know how to go.

9. Reading can mold his psychological quality. A good book is often full of feelings of truth, goodness and beauty, which will have a subtle influence on children.

10. Instead of expecting social education reform, it is better to start with family education, and the future of children is in the hands of parents.

1 1. What is more lethal than losing your temper is the cold violence of your parents.

12. Dealing with one's anxiety, nervousness and other emotions is the basis of effective education for children.

13. It is not the purpose of education to make children afraid. It takes patience rather than temper to help them know how to correct their mistakes.

14. If the child is depressed, this is a reminder from the child's body. As long as we actively respond, dogs can help solve problems very well.

15. Reduce your preaching and use "touching your child's heart" and "good mood" to drive your child's subconscious to act according to your expectations. This is the key to education.

16. Don't discuss the advantages and disadvantages of children in front of teachers or other parents.

17. Treat children's evaluation of teachers correctly, and don't talk or argue with teachers in front of children.

18. You are child-centered, even under the banner of education, it is a sign of love.

19. Setting an example for children is not only the way you look in front of outsiders, but also the way you get along with children.

20. Don't ignore any details in companionship, because growth really only happens once.

2 1. We should first respect and understand all the shortcomings of children's essential characteristics, and then patiently and slowly improve.

22. Give children appropriate pocket money instead of depriving them of their free choice in consumption, so that children can develop a good view of money.

23. Children's participation is a process of learning and constant tempering. Teaching children often saves trouble, and children grow up in trouble.

24. Good family education and parents' words and deeds will lay a solid emotional intelligence foundation for children.

25. Parents and children should gain a win-win situation in the process of education, instead of sacrificing the interests of either side.

26. The way you treat your children will gradually shape your face.

27. Tolerance does not mean laissez-faire authority or autocracy. Society is constantly changing, but the responsibility of the family has never been and cannot be weakened.

28. Those parents who give their children to a mother or nanny in order to live a relaxed and comfortable life are actually taking a big gamble on the future.

29. When you find that children are "idle", don't blame or scold them casually, give them more time and space.

30. The more sincere encouragement, the better. When a child walks forward, what he most longs to see when he looks back is an encouraging look.

3 1. Respect children's interests and encourage them to try until they like it.

32. Cultivating a child's appropriate sensitivity to criticism and injury is more conducive to his growth.

33. Under the harsh background of exam-oriented education, cultivating a child's appropriate sensitivity to scores will help him grow up better.

34. Exercise is an important part of keeping children healthy. Parents should encourage their children, or participate in various forms of exercise with their children, which can also enhance the parent-child relationship.

35. Overburden will lead to "academic exhaustion" in the follow-up study and lose room for growth.

Scolding and punishing children in public is almost a terrible cruelty.

37. Many times, it is not that children are willful, nor that children can't, but that parents have not found the right education methods.

38. Lying often reveals children's expectations. What they say is inconsistent with the facts, not necessarily deliberately lying, but thinking that the imaginary world exists.

Even if you think it is necessary to criticize or punish children, you need to restrain yourself. Restraint can avoid mistakes and become calm and rational.

40. The meaning of acceptance is to make children feel more secure. Only when he feels safe can he explore, learn and make progress.

4 1. Parents should sincerely apologize if they find that they have misunderstood their children or that their children's education methods are improper.

42. Don't educate children before going to bed. Children who often fall asleep with fear and tears will have a very dark life.

No matter where you make a living, no matter how hard your life is, please take your children with you as much as possible. Without children, we will be more dangerous.

44. Children who lack communication with their peers tend to be precocious, lose their innocence and curiosity, and lose their vitality and imagination.

45. Give children a warm and relaxed family environment. Don't be stingy to express your love for your children. Only by caring for and trusting your children can you gain a solid sense of security.

The future of children is in the hands of parents. Changing children begins with changing parents.