Whether the school handled this incident properly remains to be investigated by the government. As for the incident itself, I have the following views:
The school is responsible for the safety of children.
Any family gives their children to the school hopefully, and the school has the responsibility to ensure the safety of the children. No matter what causes the child to fall to death, the school has an unshirkable responsibility. Parents can't accept the fact of losing their children, and they are emotionally excited, which is completely understandable. If you put yourself in the other's shoes, who can forgive the school?
If the school really did something wrong in this incident, it should be generous to admit its mistakes and strive for the understanding of parents, instead of hiding anything to avoid the problem. This will not only make other students' parents feel chilling, but also make public opinion push the incident out of control. I hope the police can come up with the results quickly and give parents a fair solution.
The child's psychology is too sensitive and radical.
As the father of a sixth-grade child, I myself feel that this son is not easy to serve. Because teenagers of this age are in a rebellious period psychologically, their hearts are very sensitive. On the one hand, they are proud and brave, on the other hand, they are afraid of criticism. Boys of this age must pay attention to psychological counseling.
In my personal experience, when we criticize our son's study or living habits too much, it will irritate him. The child at this time doesn't look like an adult at all, just like a three-year-old child who is not sensible. He even has some excessive behaviors such as throwing things and swearing. Therefore, it is not easy to educate 12-year-old children, and it is easy for them to lose control of their emotions and make self-harm behaviors.
Parents criticize teachers for being rational.
According to unconfirmed news, the child in question was scolded by the teacher because his homework was not completed, so he jumped to his death. If that's the case, it's really just a few words of criticism, and there is no excessive insult, then the teacher's behavior is not excessive. Although the child jumped off the building, it cannot be said that the teacher is not allowed to criticize the child.
According to our current education method, it is really too common for children to finish their homework. My son often does his homework at his desk on Sunday, so he has no time to take him to play. The pressure of homework makes children impatient, impulsive, even tired of learning and rebellious, which requires teachers to pay attention to artistry when criticizing students, so that children can neither let themselves drift nor dampen students' self-esteem.
As a parent, it is really sad to lose a child, but if the teacher only criticizes the child's homework, I think this is the professional requirement of others and a responsible attitude towards students' study.
Parents have the responsibility to care for their children. Whether it is study, life or physical and mental health, we should take it seriously. Especially in adolescence, when children are immature but rebellious, it is very important to communicate with them more. Usually scold less and love your children in another way!
It is not easy for adults to work, and it is not easy for children to study. Another jumping event and a fresh life! For parents, if there is only such a child, it is really sad and desperate. If this is really a tragedy caused by homework, it really shouldn't be.