One: fully respect children's opinions.
Many parents are condescending to their children and think that what adults say is right. As children, they just need to listen. But I never asked my children one thing. Huo Siyan really sounded the alarm for many parents. In the program, because there are many toys, Huo Siyan thought about letting Uh-huh tidy up his toys and give some to other children. There is no direct point, but I asked for uh-huh advice first. Although I didn't want to at first, I agreed happily after thinking about it. Because mothers treat their children as friends.
Two: do your own thing.
I also have a scene in the program where Huo Siyan is carrying a box with Uh-huh, and Huo Siyan is walking in front, and Uh-huh is following behind with his own box. Although it was hot, Huo Siyan didn't help either. Because you have to do your own thing, if you go to help your child at this time, he will feel that his parents are around and he will not do anything by himself.
Three: Let children know what is right and what is wrong.
Once Huo Siyan and Uh-huh were sitting outside the supermarket. Uh-huh, when you go to the supermarket to buy things without giving money, maybe the children don't have that consciousness in their minds, that is, they need to give money to get things back, and the money is still in their hands. So Huo Siyan inquired about the situation carefully, and the high-speed uh-huh wanted to give the money to the aunt in the supermarket and go with him.
Huo Siyan's method of educating children should be worth pondering and learning by many parents.