The core of being a man is to have love, and "filial piety comes first" and "love begins with parents", that is to say, filial piety is the first of all virtues, and the cultivation of children's love should begin with filial piety to their elders. It is difficult for a person who doesn't know how to respect and care for others. In family education, we should not only cultivate children to be filial to their parents, but also educate them to be considerate of others. Young people are young, and people are young. ""see the old man and respect the old man; See young people and love them. "The habit of being a man.
It is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation to cultivate children's good habit of helping others. Caring for and helping others can make society more harmonious and life better. In the process of growing up, everyone needs and must have been helped and cared for by many people. It is everyone's mutual help and care that has created a harmonious society and a better life. If you think about it from another angle, helping others is actually helping yourself, because only when you help others will others repay you when you need help.
It can be seen that helping others is the premise for us to get help from others. Therefore, in family education, parents should tell their children that helping others is not just a unilateral effort, because "giving someone a rose is more fragrant", real happiness comes from tolerance and help, and helping others means helping yourself; Parents should set an example, educate and encourage their children to start from small things, care for and help others with their heart and initiative, and let their children develop a good habit of being helpful.
Cultivating children's good habits of civility and politeness is a fine tradition of the Chinese nation. It is not only a realistic reflection of a country's social atmosphere, but also an important symbol of national progress, and it is also a manifestation of a person's inner ideological and moral level and cultural accomplishment. It is well said in the Three-Character Classic: "If the son doesn't teach, the father has made a mistake." It can be seen that it is the basic content of family education and the responsibility of every parent to cultivate children's good habits of civility and politeness, and to shape their elegant gentlemanly demeanor and polite ladylike temperament. In family education, parents should strengthen self-education, learn to be parents, and use rational, caring, democratic and scientific family education methods to shape every small aspect of children's words and deeds, so that children can gradually develop good habits of civility and courtesy through bit by bit accumulation.