Nowadays, many parents spoil their children too much because of good family conditions. /kloc-the generation born after 0/990 are almost all children. After giving birth, they are even more precious in the eyes of their parents and grandparents. They need someone to take care of them all the time. My classmate's children are not tall, but they have their own ideas. Once I took my children to his house to play. At noon, everyone was eating at the dinner table, except his son. As a result, he said, "I'll eat it later and let my mother cook it for me later!" " "
I turned to my classmate and said, "Don't your children eat on time?" My classmate's answer to me is "spoiled by his mother, he is hungry, and his mother cooks for him." Nothing, just grow up. "In fact, I don't understand. When I was young, I was often late for dinner, so I didn't eat much. It's not that my parents don't love me, but that I eat on time. At that time, I still felt that my parents didn't love me, but it was important to know a good habit when I grew up. Eating on time is not only good for my health, but more importantly, it will make people feel that it is educated to form a habit when I was young.
Some China people's doting is even more terrible. When I was in college, I once met a classmate in the water room. Then I washed my underwear with water and left directly. I asked him not to wash it with soap? As a result, he told me that he would go home next week if he was free. My mother washed all my clothes for me, and she said I couldn't clean them!
I really don't understand this. Can clothes be washed clean when they are so big? Growing up, I don't know how much his parents spoil him, because he is going to work by himself soon and can't do his own laundry.
Today's children are the treasures of the family, and I have a deep understanding. In the past, the conditions at home were very general, and it took a few days to ask my mother to buy a new dress. But now the overall living standard has improved. The only child is the treasure of the family, and I can't wait to give him all the good things. My mother sees that her grandson always buys this and that, goes to grandma's house, and doesn't eat right, so she likes to eat snacks. I told my mother why I was a child. My mother gave me a sentence, when I was a mother, I didn't like children very much. Now that I'm a grandmother, I like my grandson very much. Maybe a generation!
There are too many such situations now. Chinese coddling is becoming more and more popular. Many parents want to give their children the best, but this kind of doting often hurts their children. Children are not sensible and will only do what they want to do. As parents, don't just satisfy their children, but tell them what is right and wrong, guide them and help them grow up better. Therefore, sometimes parents should be cruel.