Lin Qingxuan is a writer who is widely read in the international Chinese world. His works have been selected into Chinese textbooks for primary and secondary schools for many times, and his essays are reprinted more than 20 times a year.
Mr. Lin Qingxuan came to give a lecture to the teachers and students of Liaoning Technical University at the invitation of the university. Facing the college students in the audience, Mr. Lin Qingxuan has been standing and giving lectures. "How to face the dilemma of life" is the theme of Mr. Lin Qingxuan's speech. He expounded this theme from four aspects: first, we should know ourselves and find the soil that suits us. Second, we should know how to love others and be loved in life, and learn to express love. Third, learn to fall, not afraid of falling. Fourth, establish your own values. For the explanation of these problems, Mr. Lin Qingxuan makes sense through his own experience. What we tell, listen and laugh are all stories, but what is immersed in the hearts of the audience is a clear philosophy.
After the lecture of more than one hour, Mr. Lin Qingxuan had an interactive activity with the students in the audience for nearly half an hour. Facing more than ten questions raised by college students, Lin Qingxuan answered them one by one.
A student asked: When the legendary martial arts writer Gu Long died, Lin Qingxuan sent 49 bottles of XO wine to Gu Long's grave. In this regard, Lin Qingxuan explained that Gu Long died at the age of 48. Because Gu Long loved drinking before his death, when he died, his friends each brought a bottle of XO, a total of 48 bottles, one of which was sent by Lin Qingxuan. My friend put all 48 bottles of XO in Gu Long's coffin. Every time Lin Qingxuan answered a question, there was applause from the audience, especially after answering this question about Gu Long.
On that day, the International Conference Center of Liaoning Technical University was packed. The audience included not only young students from Liaoning University of Technology, but also many literary lovers from Fuxin who came to attend the lecture after hearing the news that Lin Qingxuan was coming to give a lecture. After the lecture, hundreds of readers holding Lin Qingxuan's works asked Lin Qingxuan to sign, and the team lined up outside the lobby of the International Convention Center. Lin Qingxuan signed autographs for these readers, and after each signature, Lin Qingxuan would give his readers a cordial smile.
On October 29th, 65438/kloc-0, Pingyang County Central Primary School invited Lin Qingxuan, a famous prose writer in Taiwan Province Province, to hold a literature report meeting to talk about literature, life and parenting education and Lin Qingxuan's humor, which made the audience laugh happily from time to time and made people think deeply.
Mother influences the direction of writing.
When Lin Qingxuan was young, he loved writing. Every day, he writes on the altar of ancestor worship. One day his mother asked, "What do you write every day?" Lin Qingxuan replied, "Write harder and write more interestingly." Her mother said, "write more interesting and less bitter." In this way, others can get wisdom, inspiration and comfort when reading your article. " Mother's words decided Lin Qingxuan's future writing direction. Others commented that his prose style is smooth and fresh, showing mellow and romantic feelings, which has touching power among the people.
On another occasion, Lin Qingxuan, who has become a writer, returned to his hometown. One day, after finishing writing, he accumulated a basket of crumpled waste manuscript paper, some of which didn't write a few words. When I got up the next day, I found my mother ironed the waste paper one by one and put it back on the desk. Mother pointed to the branches outside the window and said, "Every piece of paper is bought with branches. Think carefully before writing. If 300 words is enough, then don't write 1000 words. If your article is not as valuable as the branches outside the window, then don't write it, and let the branches sacrifice in vain. " Lin Qingxuan said that mother's simple words tell the true meaning of writing: articles should be concise, thoughtful and touching.
Writing does not exist alone.
As a writer, many people ask him how to learn to write; As a father of three children, Lin Qingxuan is also helping his children to write fluent and good articles.
He said that the development of writing ability does not exist alone, but is closely related to people's life, thoughts, growth environment and background. Let children go outdoors more, observe the scenery, observe the earth and increase their life experience. The article is the landscape of the desk, and the landscape is the article of the earth. When I was a child, Lin Qingxuan sat for four hours and recorded the flowers on a ridge. He said that reading biographies of writers has a common feature: they like to walk, observe and think while walking, and generate new ideas. To form a good article, they must have true feelings, different views and different ideas.
Let children know that this is a pluralistic world. Everything in this world is different, and so is every child. Don't put too much pressure on children, and cultivate children's diverse ways of thinking. Lin Qingxuan said, for example, plants, the sweetest is sugarcane, the bitterest is bitter gourd, the hottest is pepper, and the sourest is lemon. What if these four things are planted together? There are only two kinds of results, four of which grow badly, or only one of which grows well, because the soil is just the best for it. Therefore, for children's education, it is important to stimulate their inner seeds, give play to their characteristics, train their eyes, and have their own unique feelings, feelings and sentiments about things in order to write good articles.
Pass on happiness to children.
He has been writing for more than 40 years, and published books 13 1 book, ranking first in Taiwan Province bestseller for many times. Lin Qingxuan not only shared his life experiences and feelings with the world through writing, but also established the Lin Qingxuan Education and Culture Foundation in Taiwan Province Province to build a library for the school. On the mainland, Lin Qingxuan donated several hope primary schools. Since the age of 40, he has given lectures in Taiwan Province Province and Chinese mainland, with at least 65,438+000 lectures every year, covering more than 500 cities in Chinese mainland. He said that because schools and libraries are all tangible things, the influence scope is too small, and lectures are used to promote children's reading, hoping to share them with more children and awaken more inner seeds.
Lin Qingxuan pays attention to parenting education, and his expectation for children is to be a person who can live, be happy and know how to love. He stipulated that before going to bed every night, children should write down three things that moved them in the day. If you count 90 things a month, your child will feel that life is beautiful and gradually become a caring person. The first thing the children do when they come home from school is to put down their schoolbags, walk along Yangmingshan Road behind the house with Lin Qingxuan for one or one and a half hours, watch the clouds in the sky and the grass on the roadside, say hello to acquaintances passing by, and sometimes lie on the grass and watch the stars together. Lin Qingxuan proudly said: "My children may not have achievements in the future, but they will be happy people, because I have given them happy resources since childhood."
13-year-old son will go to junior high school and live on campus. Lin Qingxuan sent him four words: "Be ambitious, be firm, have an empty heart and be gentle". I hope he has great ambition, firm ambition, modest mentality, gentle temperament and knows how to respect others since he was a child. Lin Qingxuan said that parents should relax and do their best to cultivate their children into decent people. Children have laid a good foundation since childhood, and when they grow up, "life has its own way out."