However, he has an instinct to understand his mentality. He can feel happiness and pain from his parents' expressions, coexistence, language and even their mentality. And the mentality of this feeling has also seriously affected him to some extent. In "The Story of Diaosi", Zhang Quanling also mentioned that Hongkong published a divorce data survey, and conducted a sample survey on 7,000 families. The final result shows that compared with children in daily family disputes, children in divorced families are happier than children living in parents' quarrels, rather than having a negative impact on their study, training and lifestyle.
Willard Hatap, an authoritative expert in children's science research, said: The adaptability of the elderly in childhood is not reflected by intelligence, not by self-learning, but by his ability to get along with others reasonably at that time. Children who grow up in a family where their parents' relationship has deteriorated are generally sensitive, unable to get along with others, and no one can really understand them, fall in love and feel care. Disputes caused by parents not loving each other are the biggest shadow of children's development and will also become the pain point of their lives.
Parents love each other and give their children a good education. Douglas T. Kenrick, an American expert in cognitive psychology, found in his analysis that the relationship between parents will determine a child's survival strategy. Children who grow up in a loving environment usually belong to the "slow strategy" type in survival strategy. They are surrounded by subjective factors, seeing things with cognitive dissonance, emotional stability and full of hope. Moreover, because of the sense of security and satisfaction given by love, children can actively take every step. Some people say that the best happiness is being loved by parents. In fact, for children, the sweetest thing in the process of growing up is the dog food sprinkled by parents.
Du Jiang once shared in a variety show that every time he said goodbye or met Huo Siyan, he would naturally hug each other first. Even when I go home, the first hug means that Huo Siyan is not king of the children. Some people say that they envy Huo Siyan for having a good husband and raising a child with high emotional intelligence. In fact, it is precisely because of the love between men and women that they have gained many living conditions. Huo Siyan is not afraid to express her feelings for her husband and son. She will kiss her husband in front of the children and tell them word by word whether she loves him or not.
When asked, "What is what my mother said to him most in the eyes of Uh-huh Wang", Niangs did not hesitate to respond with "I like you". A really good cultural education should not be ashamed to express it, nor should it hide the feelings of men and women in front of children. Cultural education with appropriate interests must usually convey the love between parents to children. After all, under the premise of conveying children a sense of security and stability, they are still teaching children what love is. In the atmosphere of parents falling in love, culture teaches children not only the ability to love but also the courage to be loved, and the attitude towards love is supercilious.